granny

New here

Posted on 11/16/08, 10:09 pm

I lost my 14 month old triplet granson Hayden 18 months ago. He died in his sleep, undtermined natural causes. He and his brother were both born deaf and had Ceberal Palsey. They could not rule his death as sids because of the cp. I miss him so much.

• Reply #1 12/11/08  12:43pm
  
  TabbyL
  welcome..i wish that you didn't have to be here..but you are. i lost my 3week old son Bryce on september 18th. Hope you find comfort here, I have.
• Reply #2 02/14/09  4:51pm
  
  james2000
  I joined the group last year after my grand-daughter passed away at the age of 25. We also didn't get any reason for her untimely death. She went to sleep and just didn't wake up. She had a 5 month old daughter, who is now 15 months old and started a pre school program, at the Texas School For the Deaf. She is profoundly deaf, as was her mother. Cassie worked at the school, teaching the special needs children. It is fast approaching the 1st year anniversary, lack of a better word, of her death, and looking back, when I lost my husband, that 1st year, was a very hard time to face. Once I got past the date that he passed away, it was easier for me to get on. I am hoping that it will be the same with Cassie. There is not a day I don't think about her, and wondering if I had gone in her room sooner, would we still have her here. That is a question I know can not be answered and I had no reason to go to her room. But we still ask ourselves why. Only God knows that answer and we have to find comfort in that he was ready for them to go be with him. I pray that we all can except what happened, no matter how young, or old they were and remember them with love always and look forward to seeing them again in a happier place.God bless you all, Patsey

This is for mothers, fathers, or grandparents who have lost a child or grandchild. Experiencing that loss is the hardest thing ever in life, but with every ones support we can pull each other together when we get weak and be there to guide each other to carry on in our lives.