Discussion Topic
Looks and/or mental attraction
Posted on 12/10/08, 01:47 am
Hello I am attracted to women with brains, attitude and great hygeenhygene hygeen. Unfortaunfortunately in Ny its the opposite.. I do not fine Lesbian women in nyc tobe very friendly and very gr3eat communicators.
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Reply #1 12/10/08 1:54am
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Reply #2 12/11/08 2:22am
I am attracted to masculine energy in women. I like tomboys and trans-bois. I have never had a femmy girlfriend. I have two sisters who are very femmy. They taught me (by example) how to dress and act fem. So even tho I'm kind of tomboyish inside it really doesn't show. My lovers have always been atracted to my femy-ness and I to their butch-ness. My last LTR was with transgender dyke. She was female when we met and transitioned during our 7 years together. Now he passes as male everywhere. No one would ever know. I was very attracted to him. As far as what type of personality attracts me I'd have to say I always fall for the strong silent type. I have a outgoing personality so I guess that's a good fit for me.
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Reply #3 12/11/08 10:48pm
For me I think it's a certain something, like that song from George Harrison "Something in the Way She Moves". I don't go by butch or femme per se. But the real clincher is what happens when she opens her mouth... -
Reply #4 12/11/08 11:01pm
I have always found my intellectual soul mates outside my love realtionships. I've only had one lover who was my intellectual equal... in fact she was brighter than me in many ways. I need my partner to be my emotional equal.... to really know me. -
Reply #5 12/12/08 2:29am
I need both in a woman with a lot of mental and emotional stability... I honestily wholehearted can not wait to attend college in the fall of 2009!!! I am tired of being told what I should do, not to do, and you should act this way it will make you a grown up!!! -
Reply #6 12/12/08 12:07pm
I love butch women! And I'm butch myself! I need someone with a great sense of humour, who can be raunchy, yet sophisticated. My partner is a perfect blend of soft-butch. A terrific sense of humour and knows how to behave in all situations. She's such a bad boi one minute, and very femmey the next...lol...it's quite funny. I need someone who is emotionally available, and yet can get me on an intellectual level. Beasty is very open and very bright.
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Reply #7 12/12/08 1:01pm
I alway resent (lol) butches who scoff up other butches. Doesn't seem fair. Where not butchy bois put here by God to make the femmy gals happy? At one club I frequent there a herd of adorable butches who hang together making out and driving the fems crazy. They'll flirt with us from afar.. winking and posing but that's the only crumb they throw us. Oy Vey!! -
Reply #8 12/12/08 8:23pm
That is really interesting. I remember my first and only engage ment ta soft butch lesbian she was really cute and she even thought I was really hot... she had two or three children: but, I was to young for a long distance relationship including marriage' so was not faithful to her!!! -
Reply #9 07/07/09 5:42am
I am attracted to girlie-girls who are into dressing up and shopping but who are also interested in adventures, books, deep conversations about life, making the world the better place and all that. -
Reply #10 07/08/09 6:21pm
I have to go with the butch attracted to butch thing. I love masculine women and I am a naturally masculine woman myself. My wife is several years younger than me, so it's a butch and her boi when we go out. We get lots of admiring looks and the femmes do bat their eyelashes, but we only have eyes for each other. She is my intellectual equal, she is more emotionally stable than I am and she has a wonderful sense of humour. And in the bedroom while I am not the kiss and tell type, she is bottom to my top and we fit together perfectly.
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