{{Sage}}
We have ALL felt like this at times..I still have down days where I think "Whats the point?"..and you're right there are alot of nasty people out there..although like you I am grateful that I can at least spot them a mile off..and if I have to interact with them..keep them firmly at arms length...
Remember their are ALOT of good people out there as well..you just have to find them and if it means being alone until you do,then for me personally I think that is better than being involved with the wrong types..
As far as this guy is concerned..I can understand why you're worried..
Take some safety precautions..no one should have to feel like this in their own home or in the town where they live etc...
Make sure you lock up at night..if you have an alarm system use it..you can also buy those timer lights that light up your driveway when anyone passes by..and timer lamps that you can pre set inside your home..so that an outsider can't tell if anyone is in or not...
If you're receiving phone calls you don't want..get caller ID or change your number..the same for a mobile phone..I have been there and believe me it is so worth changing your sim card if it gives you piece of mind...
Don't forget that the police are there to help..you may need to take out a restraining order if this continues...
Your local domestic violence shelter may also be able to help..they don't just take in battered women but often are brilliant at giving advice to women in these type of situations..
At the moment you're giving this guy all your power..you need to take some of it back and DO something constructive for YOU...
I am in a similar situation right now and I know how draining it can be,so I'm not saying any of these things to you lightly...I do know that if you're already sick,the stress will add to that and make anything you're going through seem worse...
Take some action hun..you cannot change all of the nasty people in this world,but you can start to take care of you,and get your power back from this guy that is harassing you...
Hugs
Sharonxoxo
Discussion Topic
It's all starting to get to me
Posted on 05/18/09, 12:35 am
Seeing the bad in people is really starting to get to me. Knowing what people are capable of and knowing their around me and seeing it in so many people has always made me nervous but I was thankful that I could tell. Now I am beginning to feel paranoid. I don't feel safe and am starting to not want to leave my home even though I have to even if only to take the dog out. It is really starting to creep me out and make me feel very unsafe. Maybe I am just having a bad night. Afterall I am being harassed by this guy and it is night time right now and night time is particularly bad for me but I also feel like I am burning out. I need good things to happen to me for a change! I feel like I am going to burst! Being sick, being an Indigo, being harassed....It makes me want to hide. It makes me wish I had never been born.
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Reply #1 05/20/09 4:48am
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Reply #2 05/27/09 1:59pm
Thanks a lot! Your right. I can't control other people but I can take care of myself. I do intend to file a complaint if he contacts me again in any way. I had asked about a restrainig order from a police officer who is on this site but she said you have to have proof of harassment so phoning the police or seeking to file a complaint are good first steps. -
Reply #3 05/27/09 2:00pm
Oh and I am sorry to hear that you are having the same problem! I hope he is leaving you alone and it is going better! -
Reply #4 09/17/09 4:40am
Sage,
Personally I think the energy you feel surrounds you like a magnet. What I mean is, is that you can actually attract bad energy (in my opinion) if you are thinking it. I have at least found this to be true for me. Sure, it's important to be able to sense who is good and who is bad, but don't let that confuse you with attracting bad energy. Exercise, breath, do good things for yourself and surround yourself with good people. -
Reply #5 09/18/09 11:21pm
SarahKeturah I believe the same thing. It is just like people who are always down about things and who always see negative in everything and then more and more bad things happen to them. But more of what I meant when I wrote this topic was that it freaked me out seeing so many bad people around my house and knowing they saw me to and if they were thinking of harming me. I knew they werent going to but it still freaked me out. The bad guys energies are a little less now so I think something in their life has changed. They live down the street from me. And another group of men havent come around lately so I think they might have moved. -
Reply #6 09/26/09 12:59pm
Have you tried shielding yourself? Psychic shielding works for me. I surround myself with the "white light of divine protection" every day. I also call on archangel Micheal for protection. I ask my guides and guardian angels to keep me safe. I also regularly burn sage and use cleansing sprays in my house. These boundaries help.
There is a lot of negative energy out there, and we can't always avoid coming in contact with it.
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Reply #7 09/29/09 10:38am
I have tried the shielding before but not regularly. I wish I had more time to invest in strengthening my gifts but at the moment all my efforts go to my health.
I have always wanted to burn sage. I have never heard of a cleansing spray. Is this like holy water?
And I too also believe that you get what you think about. This was more like being afraid because I can see the bad in people and their all around me. It made me think how safe, naive but safe the other half live. I am fine with it now. I was just going through a lot of emotional issues then and about four new very bad men moved into the neighborhood. -
Reply #8 10/05/09 11:24am
Dear Sage, It looks like to me that you have all the right information but you are feeling overwhelmed at the moment or even every night
What I want to say to you is that you will be allright. I have been keeping track of you sort of out of the picutre. I hope you don't mind. I have felt that you deserve my attention for some reason. I think it is because you are so like me when I was your age
So please know that I understand you as perfectly as I can describe and I want to tell you again, you will be allright even though you don't feel this way for the moment. Remember things change and you have the power to do what you want. You can create the outcome by just thinking about it
I hope this makes sense to you and you receive some comfort from it all. with you in spirit, sister Kim
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Reply #9 10/17/09 3:40pm
It makes perfect sense kuzy. Thank you so much for understanding and thank you for the advice.
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Reply #10 10/17/09 6:12pm
Sage,
I burn sage every day.
I also use to obsess about being killed or raped or hurt by another being. When I was married I had nightmares a lot and was afraid to stay in the house alone. For some reason, my fear of being hurt by someone turned to being afraid to fly. I don't know where the fear went.
I try not to think of these people as dangerous, I think of them as innocent babies that happened to be born into a bad environment or with one unwanted chromosome. Try to visualize that which scares you full of love and innocent. I do this by imagining these people are filled with pink glittery light.
I agree with Sarah, you can attract anything into your life.
Do you think about what you think about all day?
Know your safe and get yourself some sage! It's fun to get rid of negative energy this way.
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