I lost my mentally handicapped daugther over a year ago. She was born normal but by year one she was having seizure and by year two she was mentally delayed and by year three she stopped talking. She past at age 24. She has been my inspiration for all those years and now beyond. I was lucky to meet so many good people along the way to help me with my grief. My wife has been my rock. But my daughter has appeared to us in so many ways from vivid dreams to uncanny signs, never a month goes by something doesn't happened to remind us of her. But I find now a year past, I am doing much better because I have had many people, like yourselves validate my feelings and my experiences and not criticize or tell me when its time to get over it. I was fortunate to speak in front of over 100 people at an international conference on near death experience studies. So many people told me of their experiences and how they used their return to their bodies instead of staying on the otherside to do God's work and their work as a part of it. The light, the source, the infinite universe, the all knowledge and other names is God but not limited like we just can't seem to get past. So what they told me I will say to you my good friends. Don't forget to continue to love, because as one fellow shared with me, its all driven by love, Love is everything, God is Love and Death is just a body problem. We live forever. You don't have to read a Bible everyday or go to church every Sunday you just need to do one thing and that is live to love others. Peace