When the girls were killed.. I was told they had no sense of religious upbrining. So I was immediately worried that my prayers in their last few moments of life, were not heard.
Shortly thereafter.. maybe a week or two..I began experienceing dreams, so real, and vivid I could feel her body weight against me giving me a hug. When I opened my eyes, the feeling did not go away, and I didnt want to move, it was almost peaceful.
I began to remember details about the accident that were of no significance to me, but totally blew the family away. Apparenlty that the baby had been wrapped in her favorite blanket, something I could have easily left out.. I believe these detials were their way of telling them, they were okay.
I have since had many signs.. I never ask for them, unless I despreatly need their specific strength, i.e visit their grave, or face their family. and 9 out of 10 times, they will show.
Speaking directly to them out loud, as if there, normally works, as crazy as that sounds.. they hear me. and they read the letters in my journal.. when I ask them for help.
Be direct. And its okay to ask for clear signs as well.
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Searching for Signs ??
Posted on 03/03/09, 04:45 am
As I see our group expand, I can only wonder.. how many of you have had the privdlege to be contacted by your loved ones, or are still searching for signs, visions, communication.. to validaite that they have crossed over to a safer place and are okay?
For most of us, we get that without a sign, it's just a feeling.
A previous sense of religous belonging or faith, assures you, where your loved one rests..
But for those of us who still wait.. what can we do?? What are we looking for??
For most of us, we get that without a sign, it's just a feeling.
A previous sense of religous belonging or faith, assures you, where your loved one rests..
But for those of us who still wait.. what can we do?? What are we looking for??
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Reply #1 03/03/09 4:53am
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Reply #2 03/03/09 12:24pm
I agree, I pray for signs when I am feeling really low. They are there, sometimes just a touch on my hair, (he used to love to mess it up) or a touch on my arm, Or, a slight draft, where there is none. I also have seen him one time and that was most important of all because he was a suicide and I was so tortured by that, I will share that in another post. I don't want to offend anyone here, but regardless of religious beliefs, he DID survive! -
Reply #3 03/03/09 11:13pm
Yes Judy.. He did.. and A LOT of us.. believe that God, understands their suffing , and hurt.. and the only unforgiviable sin is forsaking christ.
We just do not like to say this b/c we normally know people who are in a place of hurt and anguish, who we dont want to encourage .. -
Reply #4 03/04/09 7:59am
Yes I know my son is with his dad. Sometimes I can visualize them together. And Laura I talk to them everyday just like I would have a conversation with anyone! I don't do it when others are around of course!
I think that spirits are around us all the time and have always been some just choose not to accept it and that's ok too. It took me a long time to realize and accept that myself. When I was 17 my dad died from a heart attack and I remember having a dream a couple of weeks later and woke up with the most calming feeling. I know he was telling me he was ok and everything would be ok. I didn't really understand it then but I certainly do now! -
Reply #5 05/02/09 10:44pm
I wear a necklace with my parents wedding rings on it. One time I felt a little pressure on my neck...the next thing that happened was the necklace fell off into my shirt. At the time this happened I was sitting on the living room floor. This has happend twice...so far. -
Reply #6 05/04/09 12:28pm
I was getting signs alot for a while but I haven't had anything for a few weeks. I guess I've been to busy to notice anything. I'm feeling a little low and that would sure make my day today, seeing something from one of them! The day's still young! -
Reply #7 05/04/09 4:51pm
This may sound very silly to everyone, but the other night I heard my Mandy (my beloved LhasaPoo who died early last spring) She also came to me the night my sister died and scratched at my side of the bed. She had some distinctive little girl "blings" on her collar that made a special sound. Whenever things are upsetting me, she wants to comfort, and ..she does!
Sometimes we have to say a prayer and ask for a sign from our loved one. It may come in a dream, a song on the radio, a sudden chill in the room that only you feel, the uncanny feeling of someone standing by me. Today I am very upset about several things, and the basement door opened up by itself. Unsettling, yes,..not impossible, but then 15 min later the front door opened up and I know THAT was latched tightly! Jamie likes to "move" things on me,..I will be bustling about and the utensil or ingredient will not be where I put it, sometimes I will look around and find it somewhere weird,..like on the toaster, sometimes,..ta da....there it is...right where I put it and it WAS NOT There 2 seconds ago! Signs are around us often, we have to be looking for them sometimes! -
Reply #8 05/05/09 3:23pm
I did have another this morning. It's funny how you try to explain it away. It was my barn light again only this time on the other side of the barn. I took my dog out and it was out. I said aloud "I need that light to come back on" 2 minutes later it was on. I think about how it could be loose wire, bulb, etc. But I then said "thank you". I guess I'm taking it as a sign! -
Reply #9 05/05/09 4:26pm
Debbie! Yes! Looks like somebody is having some fun with you, too!
Isn't it a lovely feeling? It is like just a little bit of love reaching out to you...God Bless! Judy -
Reply #10 05/13/09 11:03pm
I'm new here. And, yes, I'm looking for signs - begging for a sign. I was raised and still am a practicing Catholic, so many of you will understand what my Faith teaches and dictates about life after death. It was suggested to me some months back that we are not supposed to ask God for signs - that it's like tempting God. I hadn't thought of that.
But my deceased Mom once saw her mother (who died before I was born) standing over my bedside while I slept when I was a child. I'm told she had a beautiful smile. Mama believed in signs - and I know if she knew how I'm suffering over her, she'd be here for me. But this was not something that one could discuss with her in life. I'm not sure if I'd recognize it - or jump out of my skin if I got a sign. Sometimes, I've thought - maybe this or that. But nothing concrete. I KNOW if she could, my Mama would come at least to console me. But why hasn't she? Are the souls unable to cross that border?
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