Hi everyone, I am Bob and new to this group and to DS.
I am 43, married for 20 years to the love of my life. We have been through many ups and downs in our marriage, and survived a lot of trials and tribulations. As we approach or mid-40's, our sex life is getting better and better, due to our committment to one another to communicate our feelings and wants, needs and desires openly. For us, this is a mjor accomplishment. For 15 or our 20 years, I was addicted to porn and sex, which really put a damper on our relationship. Now that I have cleaned myself up and committed myself to her, our life together has really improved. I am here to share and to learn from others. I hope that I can offer solid advice, and share a lifetime of experiences with others.