Discussion Topic
Is oral an important part of your lovemaking?
Posted on 07/23/08, 09:59 pm
I love oral and it use to be a very important of sex for me but my wife thinks it is dirty and don't let me do that anymore. Do you think it is dirty and it it an important part of sex for you?
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Reply #1 07/23/08 10:08pm
Yes i'd think its important & no its not dirty = ], we dont do it every time we have sex but majority of the time we do. -
Reply #2 07/23/08 10:47pm
I think anything that two people feel comfortable doing together is beautiful and never dirty. Have you tried to find out what she doesn't like about it? I know I don't enjoy it unless both I and my husband shower very well first. Is she young or do you have small children? She may be at a point in her life where she just wants to get it over with quickly because she is tired or embarrassed. Lots of women go through this at one time or another and it will pass eventually. Was she willing before you got married? Just be patient and understanding. Maybe she will come around. -
Reply #3 07/24/08 12:00am
Oral is special becasue you can please the other person without pleasing your self. It is important-especially when I want to give my vagina a break. I don't think it is dirty at all. -
Reply #4 07/24/08 9:05am
I love it and never have thought it was dirty. It is just about as initmate as you can get I think. Yes, she was willing for several years after we got married DebraMarie but when she went through menopause it ended along with a lot of other things that I enjoyed. It has been this way for several years so I don't think she will come around. I think it has been about 5 or 6 years since she let me do this. I miss it really bad but I guess I will just have to learn to live without it. -
Reply #5 07/24/08 11:56am
oh hell ya its important...more so important for me to be able to give to her, than for her to give to me. I mean, i love BJ's but I get more upset if I can't go down on her, than if she doesn't go down on me....ya know? -
Reply #6 07/24/08 1:59pm
I have always felt the same way as you RS296U, I love BJ's but it is even more exciting to enjoy feeling my woman on my face and to taste her. There is nothing that is more of a turn on. -
Reply #7 07/24/08 2:34pm
Not dirty at all.Unfortunately my husband doesnt do it :( -
Reply #8 07/24/08 2:40pm
Sorry Tray34, your husband just doesn't know what he is missing. I would be doing it all the time if I could. -
Reply #9 07/24/08 3:39pm
We do it. Not every time though -
Reply #10 07/24/08 4:15pm
oh hell ya it's important to us anyway. we do it everytime i do him for awhile (which is a big turn on) then we allways do 69 (which is a biger turn on) until i'm ready and then we have intercorse (several different ways of corse) and that's how i cum. if he didn't do oral on me i would realy have to work at geting there, but with oral i'm there in about 3min. but of corse every women is different some like it some don't, although i can't see why the hell they wouldn't. tray do you give him oral? because if you do i'd be cutting his shit off!!!!!! it's a 2 way street no give no receive. wilson i'm sorry she doesn't wan't to anymore i'm bet it makes you feel kinda empty inside wanting to be real intimate with her and loveing her somuch and you can't be with her in the way you want. i do beleive though her going through menapose probuly takes a part. i had a full (spelling) hystrorectomy and have to use testrosone so i would get my sexdrive back to normal (actualy better now). maybe you should talk to her about seeing a dr, theres alot of hormones out there that could help her come back to her oldself agian. you realy need to talk to her though it's not fair to you. good luck LUV500SL
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