Hi Everyone
This is my mum.s site but sadly she is yet again ill!!i wanted to let you all know how mum is,fisrtly although she isn,t very well at the moment but i had to tell you how she has been doing.
Firstly mum has breast cancer but is reponding well to her radiotherapy also she is doing fantastic with her issues when she was kidnapped, i have watched my mum go to hell and back,my dad left us just before christmas and i thought several times that my mum was giving up on life,i couldn,t have been futher from the truth!! yes she,s very ill with her physical ailments but as for her mental issues i.e the rape etc, slowly but surely mum has gone from being very unhappy and downtrodden to a new fiesty no nonsense mum now mum know,s what happened wasen,t her fault and she has also learned not to put up with anyone upsetting her,she used to just sit and stew and stop eating and all the other stuff that comes with depression,now mum,s back to the person i knew before them pigs got her,when she laugh,s now it,s a proper laugh!! it,s not forced laughing she was so misrable now? well now yes she gets alot of pain which is horrible to see,but she had us all in fits of laughter yesterday!! there was a very nasty doctor who kept being being very very rude and nasty toward the nurse,s well my mum hates that!!! sooooo whn he was on his rounds there was a young nurse who he was speaking to and he really was upsetting this poor nurse well my mum had a go at him!!! she turned and told him,if i were your wife and someone came upto her and started telling her she was a hag and generally being extremly rude would you go mad? he looked at her and told her why? mum then told him,that poor nurse work,s hard to earn her money yet you think you can come onto the ward and belittle her in front of me the patient! she then told him,i suggest you either change your attitude or bugger off and come back when you,ve had an attitude ajustment! if i haden,t have witnessed it myself i wouldn,t have believed she actually said!! he went off in a strop and told her you will see a different doctor later on because i will not have any patient speak to me the way you just have! mum told him "get a life you jumped up fat idiot!" i have to say it sounds unbeliverble but believe me she said it!!!lol after he had flounced off the ward several nurse,s came up to mum and thanked her for telling him they wanted to but couldn,t for fear of losing there job,s!! then mum,s regular doc came to check on mum even he told me well done not many people have the gump to tell him off!! mum didn,t care she was still mad at the doc!!! mum,s really trying now and she,s even interested in how she looks now,and although mum thought she would never manage by herself now SHE wants to look good,she has also realised that there are men out there other than dad,she has told my dad there is absoulutly no way i,d ever have you back,you know i thought i,d never have anyone in my life well guess what??? yep mum,s got a man she see,s,he is older than mum but they are both happy and isn,t it funny when mum gets back suddenly things go pearshaped,the thing my dad left my mum for turn,s out to be a bunny boiler and just after christmas [he told mum 6wks before christmas that he was leaving!]they split in fact they went back and forth five times!! also dad lost his job four week,s ago i think thats calling it khama!! so now it,s not mum who,s all sad and sitting by herself now she,s always out and about and she has alot more friends but all my dad does is sit moaning his head off and trying to find out what mum,s upto!! he also told me i don,t want a divorce,why can,t your mum just stay seperated from me? in other words he doesn,t want to give mum any money, well he,s in for a shock!!
Sorry for going on a bit i just wanted to tell you about mum and also how great she,s doing emotionally,yes she,s still got a long way to go but as far as my dad? well who cares??? THANK YOU all for helping with you continuing help and support it mean alot to us thank you callum