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Everyday I meet people who have a boyfriend or a son in the same situation as my son. A teenager who had consensual and mutual gratifaction with a classmate, only to have the classmate yell 'assault'. In my son's case even the judge and DA claimed that the only crime he committed was 'consensual gratifaction with someone LEGALLY too young to give consent, altho the texts do show she did'.....they have an age difference of less than 2 years. This is a case of her writing pages (55 of them) of texts over hours enticing, encouraging and inviting over a period of more than 9 hours.
My question....has there ever been a massive letter writing campaign to the nations congressmen to look into these types of cases? I can't help but wonder if we all took a stand and wrote letters and flooded their offices with them, would that made a difference??
So many of us believed in the ERA in the 70's, but I believe it's time for a new ERA....EQUAL RESPONSIBILITY AMENDMENT. If they are truly waging a war on sex crimes then they need to have some 'rules of engagement'.....the person who FIRST sent the text, or picture, or ???, should be the person charged. In too many cases, the "victim is often the predator".
From what I understand Congress will soon be let out for the month of August (?) and the congressmen/women will be heading back to their home states. I plan to write, I hope we can organize this into a national event for familes of sex offenders. How do we start? Any Ideas??
My question....has there ever been a massive letter writing campaign to the nations congressmen to look into these types of cases? I can't help but wonder if we all took a stand and wrote letters and flooded their offices with them, would that made a difference??
So many of us believed in the ERA in the 70's, but I believe it's time for a new ERA....EQUAL RESPONSIBILITY AMENDMENT. If they are truly waging a war on sex crimes then they need to have some 'rules of engagement'.....the person who FIRST sent the text, or picture, or ???, should be the person charged. In too many cases, the "victim is often the predator".
From what I understand Congress will soon be let out for the month of August (?) and the congressmen/women will be heading back to their home states. I plan to write, I hope we can organize this into a national event for familes of sex offenders. How do we start? Any Ideas??
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From personal experience, this is a very difficult thing to start. Many people want to see change, but very few will take the time to write, call, or email. Are you a member of a state advocacy group in your area? Almost every state has an RSOL (Reform Sex Offender Laws) Organization in it. I work for Georgians For Reform and when things come up, we all share what is going on at the national level so that we can alert our members to take action. Most of these state organizers are overwhelmingly busy and need the help of those who are willing to lead in different areas. If you have not joined a group, I encourage you to do so. I think that our members would be willing to join in a similar campaign. Rather than punishment, these cases need to be handled in a much more effective and appropriate manner. Putting kids on a registry is ruining their lives...it doesn't matter who initiated...putting them on the registry is just wrong. However, I know where you are coming from on this issue and I do not mean to sound like I am attacking your idea. Something needs to be done and this year would be a good time to start looking at this insane legislation hurting our kids.
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