tryn2bhappy

Depo done.. thanks for the prayers

Posted on 11/09/09, 09:48 pm

Whew.. I am drained.. took 4 1/2 hours.. plus 2 hours of prep by my lawyer.. I think it went well, stayed in control, strange sets of questions.. Will be on later.. needing to get some rest.

• Reply #1 11/09/09  11:51pm
  
  trisha9054
  You did it. It's over for now. Good for you.
  Yes, you get some rest.
• Reply #2 11/10/09  5:29am
  
  hurtinandhe...
  I hope you get some rest. Hugs!!!
• Reply #3 11/10/09  10:50am
  
  sld1
  Good luck at court this morning. I know you're there right now. Hugs.
• Reply #4 11/10/09  12:27pm
  
  dairytech
  ((((HUGS))))
• Reply #5 11/10/09  9:00pm
  
  tryn2bhappy
  thanks to all of you being there in spirit.. Dont understand why they have to be so evil when it is what the F-ing wanted. just feeling drained , trying to prevent a spiral..
• Reply #6 11/10/09  10:03pm
  
  Creekside
  Hang in there t2bh. Please do something nice for yourself, even if it's just some quiet time with a cup of tea and a good book. {{{hugs}}}
  
  
• Reply #7 11/13/09  11:08am
  
  Misred
  They want EVERYTHING that's why they get so evil when you want to take your own marbles and go play somewhere else. They want theirs AND yours.
• Reply #8 11/13/09  9:03pm
  
  zouga
  They don't even see you and your pain. They only see what they want, and they expect to get every little thing they demand. You won't get a fair treatment from a person like this. Take some time to recover from this. Don't be too hard on yourself. I'm sure you did a great job, but you won't change the stbx and his evil ways.((hugs))
• Reply #9 11/15/09  8:42am
  
  Puter
  Congrats on getting through this. You are right, it is very draining. As others have said, do something good for yourself. Reward yourself in some relaxing way to let loose of all the stress.
  
  I suggest a night with the girls packed with one dollar bills to the Chippendale's show.
• Reply #10 11/17/09  12:58am
  
  sparky4
  Treat yourself to something special! Hugs!

I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40 etc.