A true DIVA is not a gold digger! We are viewed as DIVAS because we are survivors of many different life experiences. Always standing on our own! We are actually very independent and giving. We are leaders in all things that we do. We share our experiences of life with others so that they are inspired to do better for themselves.

We are trying to help women understand it's not just what they are doing but how they are doing things. Men want women to need them but yet they don't want women that are too needy. I mean men feel if you don't need them then you are with someone else. But needing a man can be taken out of context. Need him to fix your car VS. needing him to pay your car note now that's a gold digger.

To me been independent means not asking anyone for anything although we all need help sometime. But men like to be the one who come to the woman and not have the woman beg all the time. I find myself blessed all the time cause I never ask. Most of the time I am quite surprised to get the gifts I recieve. Some of the time I don't even accept them cause the gift is to great in value. And when there has been no time spent it's not welcomed. To me then that would mean I owe you something. SO ladies do things in order don't just take take take. Give sometime. Only if you can afford to do it. Sometimes giving comes from faith that it will come back to you ten fold. But remember it's always better to give than to recieve.