Why do people start these discussion groups when they say nothing? This is the third group I have looked at and this is the only one with some activity, only one entry but at least something, not even recent. Why bother, if you really wanted help or be helped, then why? It only is more depressing when I look and there is no help and no one cares enough to even try. Not even the founders leave the first entry, how discouraging for any one that might look for help on these sites, it is for me, and I give up having only been more confused and frustrated than before.