hunterjumper

why only report one and not the other

Posted on 02/27/09, 04:54 pm

i am screaming for help. i can take all the hits and physical stuff but i can't take the emotional abuse. i have finally started to say something and speaked up a little to a teacher at school but it all deeps on the my father mood of what he does with me that night. so why do they only report physical abuse what about the other side of abuse that usually tags along with the physical part... emotional. i want to leave. they need new rules but i can no where near to tell the teacher the physical component yet but can't she just take the emotional and get me out of there bc i am done and worn out and ready to go and either leave him or the world. any thoughts about this?

• Reply #1 02/28/09  7:33am
  
  childhood
  when i was in high school i told sum emotional to a guidance counselor (schools dint have good help years ago) . .
  . . i shud hav told about the sex abuses for years but i dint. gee i dint even say bout the physical abuse. i jus told emotional stuff.
  
  then i SOO MUCH WANTED to tell all or any of the teachers when all sitting eating their lunches but i dint do that too
  
  coz i stuttered/stammered which is so embarrassings so made harder to tell coz i wud sound like a porky pig cartoon
  
  to this day (many many decades later) i still wish i told ALL what was goin on
  
  but i did tell aunt, grandma, a gas station man, sum friends ...
  ... so shit i eventually joined Navy during Viet nam war ... dint care if i died in that war...it wud be better than MONSTER DAD killing me (he had guns)
  
  u dont have to live in his concentration camp an be tortured any longer
  
  call a help line please, take yurself an the 3 age u like to be, and dump him - then what happens to him is HIS FAULT .. i hope HE DIES
  
  u must stay in this world coz i stayed an i try 2 help peeps who goin thru what i went thru
  
  shit, i even telephoned cemetery where my parents both buried an told they got pedo pervert buried there an his female wife next to him who seen him physicall abuse me and haunt me emotionally for over 10 years
  
  let them rot
  
  escape that hell PLEASE get outa there
  
  today is lots of help (not like when i was a kid your age)
  
  geez i even try to kill myself but dint know it till years later . .
  . . now i never tolerate any abuse - period
  
  i be here 4 U ... jus giv me a ring (message)
  
  my profile shows me in peter pan clothes coz i havin fun in chilhood now coz i enjoy bein childlike
  
  why grow up ? hahaha
  
  more fun bein 3 or like me now 6, or i like 10 age too, but wont be 14 coz was raped then by him
  
  oh yeah i also had pedophiles/perverts messin wif me as a little boy (from age 7)
  
  ps - i also helped put sum in jail, an helped to shut down sum chats an website
  
  they dont wanna mess wif me (i like to spy on the sickos)
  
  i better go but get back wif me okie dokie?
  
  i am way older than u (really) but i DO UNDERSTAND all your saying ...
  .... keep sharing ! let it all out ! !
  
  tell as long as u wants
  
  i been tellin all my life (since about age 12)
  
  *safe huggies*

It's hard growing up but its even harder when you have noone to turn to at home. This is a group where abused kids/teens can all rant, cry and support eachother. Also if you are an adult and were abused as a child.