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   I'm. new to the site. My husband had a A that I just found out about. I still love him and he says he loves me to. How can I trust him again? If he cheated once will he cheat again? I tried the other site for thoes who were cheated on. It just seemed so negative. I want to work this out. I'll welcome any advice from the other side. Thanks

   
   

   2Kay

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   Hi, i disagree with the cheated once so always a cheater... i tihnk that for the most part the opposite is true. Cheating is a wake up call... men aren't cheating because they enjoy cheating, they're cheating because they're not enjoying their marriage and they don't know what to do abotu it. Because they've lost all the leverage in the relationship and they aren't being listened to... surprise surprise, eventually someone comes along who listens and then the man has an outlet for his emotions. At this point, with the cat out of the bag, he can choose to ditch the marriage or apply the lessons he's learned.... if he applies the lessons he's learned he won't cheat again because he'll have been hurt badly hurt....so stick with it... once he's cheated, he's less likely to do it again in my opinion

   
   

   rvanwinkle