I try everyday to forget the affair my wife had and accept blame for my own personal problems that may have assisted in driving her to the affair. It supposedly was a one evening event, but I just can't get past invisioning her with someone else. We have discussed the event, but again I know that I don't have all the truth. I know more than my wife knows and I don't want to cause problems by telling her. I wish that she would just lay it all out on the table and we could try to move on. We are trying to move on, but I am still burdoned with the image of my wife with someone else everytime we get intimate. I really want to make it work and would love some advice. Please help if you can.