metalheadlxlxl

Sexual Abuse

Posted on 06/01/08, 08:18 pm

If you are in need or looking to be a mentor for sexual abuse post in this forum.
If you need a mentor please post the answers to the following questions:
1)What age/gender restrictions do you have?
2)How often are you on dailystrength?
3)Are there any other areas you need help in?

If you are looking to be a mentor:
please look at people\'s answers and choose who you think you could best mentor. then contact us and wait for our apprival before contacting them. please dont take on more people to mentor than you can handle.

Once you have been contacted by someone who wants to mentor you and you have decided you are happy with them as your mentor, please contact us, so that we can delete your post to make room for new posts.

thank you,
Karen [metalheadlxlxl]
Aimee [StrugglingtogetBy]

• Reply #1 06/01/08  8:55pm
  
  believr
  1-no age or gender restrictiona
  2-whenever i get a chance, ill either be really free so then im on a lot, or really busy so i dont get too much time on
  3-no other areas i need help in
• Reply #2 06/01/08  10:06pm
  
  LonelyinLI
  I need a mentor.
  1. I would prefer a female who is in their 30's or 40's
  2. I am usually on at night after 8p.m
  3. I also need help with self-injury
• Reply #3 06/01/08  10:27pm
  
  Person913
  1. Is there any specific area you need mentoring in? Rape, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, depression, cutting, PTSD
  2. Do you want a specific age or gender in your mentor? I guess a few years older than me at least
  3. How often are you on dailystrength? Every day, usually for a while
  4. Are you willing to be open with your mentor? Yes
• Reply #4 06/02/08  6:04am
  
  LGTAL19
  to have a mentor
  1.female only no 18-21
  3.everyday
  4.yes
• Reply #5 06/02/08  7:43pm
  
  DeiDeiz
  I do need a mentor
  
  I need help in sexual abuse and the aftremath, PTSD
  Preferrable someone around their early 20-39
  I am on here at least 5-6 times during the day and on at night until 2:00 am
• Reply #6 06/03/08  5:42pm
  
  innocencegone
  I'm looking to be a mentor. Helping others is something I can do, it's helping myself that I struggle with.
  
  1) No age/gender restrictions
  2) I'm here almost everyday (usually during the day - I try to check in at least once a day).
  3) If I became a mentor, I'd give the person I would be mentoring another way to get in touch with me so that I'd be available almost anytime needed.
• Reply #7 06/09/08  11:57pm
  
  jamminjamie79
  I need a mentor
  
  1. only a female please... anyone 25 or older
  2. everyday.... usually off and on all day
  3. sexual abuse, bulimia
• Reply #8 06/10/08  9:32pm
  
  GoodGod
  I could use a couple dozen mentors.
  
  I am a working very hard to overcome a breakdown which occured five years ago due to hostile environmental work related stress. I have what they call a major depression and anxiety disorder.
  I am light years better than I was.
  
  My relationship with my sons faltered when I became ill.
  That has caused me additional discomfort.
  
  I am also working on sexual abuse issues, ptsd, food issues and I have experienced emotional and some physcial abuse in my relationships with men.
  
  My parents are/were alcoholics.
  
  Despite my rap sheet above, I can be, at times, positively perky.
  I have learned to deeply appreciate the person I have become through some very long and hard recovery work.
  
  Sometimes I do get a little overwhelmed when daily life trips me up.
  
  I am on DS daily. I try to be very motivated. I am going to get my life back in even better shape that it was before.
  
  It would be cool to have someone that knows me well and offers support.
  Of course, I can be a good source of support at times, also.
  
  I know it is really important to actually feel the feelings that abuse victims surpress. I am have been doing that for years. I have even been able to improve during my breakdown. To me, work on the feelings is necessary. I do, however, keep my focus on the fact that things do get better, people do improve, life can be very good. That is my direction.....better, improvement..life is good.
  
  I am very spiritual. However, my spirituality is very low key and very simple. My sons used to watch Star Wars, etc. When I first heard the phrase, " May the Force Be With You " I loved it.
  That is exactly how I feel. When I am in sinc with myself and all the forces that be...postive energy, the universe, God...I am at my best.
  I would prefer having a mentor that has a compatible sense of personal and spiritual reference. Structured religion is a wonderful, wonderful thing for many others, it is not something that works for me.
  
  So if you are a free spirit, if you know about depression, or sexual abuse, or ptsd, or ACOAs, or emotional and or physcial abuse, sleep issues because of all the previsouly mentioned lucious lovelies and if you can help motivate and give support for depression and anxiety and daily body pain..if you are someone who can help me consistantly work on getting my body in shape and dealing with compulsive overeating and body image issues...well then you are a freaken saint and a very sought after commoditiy.
  
  If you identify with any of my issues and would like to interact, give me a buzz.
  
• Reply #9 06/11/08  11:27pm
  
  quixotica
  I am looking to be a mentor. I gave some information to Aimee, or you can "befriend" me if you want to just talk and go on a more casual basis.
• Reply #10 06/13/08  9:57am
  
  XxLinkinPar...
  i am looking for a mentor in this area...
  
  i am 29 and would prefer a woman older than me...
  i am on DS off and on all day, and throughout the night (PST)
  i believe trust is earned, but would give my mentor a chance, yes.
  
  **** i also struggle with self harm, physical and emotional abuse, PTSD, and really REALLY need someone who understands DID ****
  
  thankyou

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