BlueyedSing...

Having troubles

Posted on 08/20/09, 12:46 am

I'm new here, I'm 8 months pregnant and really lost as of now, the babys dad decided he didn't want me when I told him I was pregnant, and now this guy I'm seeing is telling me I have trust issues, He's a great guy and he has alil boy and he expects the fact that I'm having a lil girl, but its just so hard to fully trust someone can anyone give me advice on how I can trust people again?

• Reply #1 08/20/09  10:27am
  
  LisR
  I dont know how long has it been since you and the baby's father have been apart. But I remember when things were going down with my ex-husband I did not had the right mind or emotional stability to be with someone else. It takes time to heal old wounds, and it takes time to work on yourself, and find yourself again. Because believe it or not, we loose ourselves when we go through hell, with a dysfunctional man.
  I am not saying this new guy in your life is bad, but maybe you need to work on yourself to learn to trust on any other man again. But a word of advice, trust does not mean not to reflect on your lessons you learned from the past. Is a long process but I am sure you will get there :)! And he needs to be a little more patient and understanding with you. Because of all the stuff you have been through already, is not going to be easy for you to give all your trust to him.

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