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Hi I am new here
Posted on 08/13/09, 08:34 pm
Well, I have decided to make new friends!! so here i am!!
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Reply #1 08/19/09 5:25pm
hi!! i am looking for single mom friends also. how long have you been a single mom? im new to it, my husband and i seperated a little over a month ago. its hard being a single mom thats for sure! (and very exspensive) -
Reply #2 08/20/09 10:34am
lol yes my friend it is very expensive, when you are doing everything on your own. I have been a single mother, I say since I was pregnant (although I was still married lol) He was too busy chasing another person instead of taking care of his home. Its been hard, but overall I have been single for 4 years now-the same age as my daughter.
Is hard to go through all the emotions: anger, sadness, loneliness, etc... but we need sometimes to let those emotions out by talking to other who can relate and have been through it or crying. Then after all that, the light comes up and you realize that your daughter and you DESERVE way much better :)!
Have a bless day! -
Reply #3 08/21/09 7:14pm
I HEARD THAT! ONE SECOND I AM SAD AND THE NEXT I AM VERY ANGRY. ITS HARD TO MOVE ON WHEN YOU ARE STUCK NOT KNOWING WHAT IS GONNA HAPPEN. NOW IN THE THE "WHAT MAN IS GONNA WANT TO BE WITH A SINGLE MON" STAGE. IT DOESNT MAKE SENSE TO ME HOW HE CAN BE AWAY FROM OUR DAUGHTER FOR WEEKS AT A TIME WHEN HE WAS ONCE A WONDERFUL LOVING FATHER. OUR DAUGHTER WAS A DADDYS GIRL FROM DAY ONE. IT REALLY BREAKS MY HEART THAT SHE IS GONNA HAVE TO GROW UP WITHOUT A FATHER! -
Reply #4 08/22/09 6:44pm
I can relate rach,
It did also broke my heart to know that my girl grow up without her biological father. But out of anger I have made sure she gets all the love she needs from strong women: myself, my mom, my sister, and my friends. So trust me she is s better off, he is the one loosing all those beautiful stages his lost your gain :)
And as for the another guy looking at you, just take your time to find yourself again, and when you are ready to meet new people-dating, just make sure you have boundaries set for you and your daughter.
Best of luck to you! And im here for you if u need further help :) -
Reply #5 08/22/09 7:32pm
thanks! i really appreciate it! yur right about him losing out on the important stages in her life. -
Reply #6 08/24/09 10:42am
:) yep
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