MikeJD

Reaching out

Posted on 09/23/09, 06:31 pm

Hi,where do i start with this?I just don't wanna feel alone with it anymore.I have had BDD since i was 17 but its just been diagnosed.i have just started telling friends but on the whole i'm not getting much back from them,i dont think they know how to handle it.It's been a private hell for 26 years,some periods were easier than others but it's been and remains constant.I'm not being very specific at the moment but this is a big step for me.It means alot to be part of this group I really hope I hear back,cheers Mike

• Reply #1 09/29/09  7:10am
  
  wd09
  welcome to the group! BDD is horrible but you dont have to deal with it alone anymore
• Reply #2 10/04/09  3:10pm
  
  Spiky
  hi there -- i have never been diagnosed with BDD but i think i am pretty safe in assuming that i have it based on the fact that i don't leave the house unless it's absolutely necessary, and even when i'm out, i avoid making eye contact or speaking with people as much as i can.
  that being the case, i was happy to see that there was a group about this issue on this site. unfortunately, it seems to be kind of dead...i'm wondering what's with the lack of participation. maybe people like us have trouble revealing ourselves even in cyberspace. i am pleased to see that someone new has entered the group. i don't really have the guts to use a recognizable photo of myself for an avatar. good for you for showing yourself. i peek in here fairly regularly, so if you want feedback, i'm happy to give it! take care.

Body dysmorphic disorder (BDD) is a mental disorder in which the affected person is excessively concerned about and preoccupied by an imagined or minor defect in his or her physical features. The sufferer may complain of several specific features or a single feature, or a vague feature or general appearance, causing psychological distress that impairs important functioning (e.g. occupational or self-care) or social aspects of life.