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  • Refection for the Day

    Posted by KenL - 11/16/09, 10:13 am

    NOVEMBER 16 Reflection for the DayWe sometimes hear humility defined as the state of being "teachable." In that sense, most of us in the Gam...

  • Reflection for the Day

    Posted by KenL - 11/15/09, 01:07 pm

    NOVEMBER 15 Reflection for the DayAs a newcomer to Gamblers Anonymous, I was told that my admission of my powerlessness over gambling was my first ste...

  • Reflection for the Day

    Posted by KenL - 11/14/09, 09:24 am

    NOVEMBER 14 Reflection for the DayFirst search for a little humility, my sponsor urged me. If you don't, he said, you're greatly increasing th...

  • Reflection for the Day

    Posted by KenL - 11/13/09, 01:40 pm

    NOVEMBER 13 Reflection for the Day  All progress can be boiled down and measured by just two words: humility and responsibility. It is said that ...

  • Reflection for the Day

    Posted by KenL - 11/12/09, 10:08 am

    NOVEMBER 12 Reflection for the DayThere are few "absolutes" in the Gamblers Anonymous Twelve Steps of Recovery. We're free to start at a...

  • Reflection for the Day

    Posted by KenL - 11/11/09, 11:44 am

    NOVEMBER 11 Reflection for the DayWhat, exactly, is humility? Does it mean that we are to be submissive, accepting everything that comes our way, no m...

  • Reflection for the Day

    Posted by KenL - 11/10/09, 11:14 am

    November 10 Reflection of the DayWhen I first came to Gamblers Anonymous, I thought humility was just another word for weakness. But gradually I learn...

  • Relfection for the Day

    Posted by KenL - 11/09/09, 09:40 am

    November 9 Reflection of the DayAs time passes, daily communion with God is becoming as essential to me as breathing in and out. I don’t need a ...

  • Reflection for the Day

    Posted by KenL - 11/08/09, 10:22 am

    November 8 Reflection of the DayMy conscious contact with God depends entirely on me and on my desire for it. God’s power is available for me to...

  • Reflection for the Day

    Posted by KenL - 11/07/09, 09:54 am

    November 7 Reflection of the DayThere are those in the Gamblers Anonymous Program who, at the beginning, shun meditation and prayer as they would avoi...

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Reflection for the Day

Posted by KenL - 11/19/09, 10:38 am
November 19 Reflection of the Day

I no longer argue with people who believe that satisfaction of our natural desires is the primary purpose of life. It’s not our business in Gamblers Anonymous to knock material achievement. When we stop and think about it, no group of people ever made a worse mess of trying to live by that “la dolce vita” formula than we did. We always insisted on more than our share – in all areas. And even when we seemed to be winning, that only fueled our compulsion so that we dreamed of still greater winnings. Our compulsion was never satisfied.

Am I learning that material satisfactions are simply by-products and not the chief aim of life? Am I gaining a perspective that puts character-building and spiritual values first?

Today I Pray
May I recognize that I never did handle excess very well, based on my past experience. I have been apt to “want more” of whatever it is I have – love, winnings, money, property, things. May the Gamblers Anonymous Program teach me that I must concentrate on my spiritual, rather than my material, bounty.

Today I will Remember
It’s okay to be spiritually greedy.

Reflection for the Day

Posted by KenL - 11/18/09, 10:17 am
November 18 Reflection of the Day

“Nothing is enough to the man for whom enough is too little,” wrote the Greek philosopher Epicurus. Now that we’re free from gambling, and are building our self-respect and winning back the esteem of family and friends, we have to avoid becoming smug about our new-found success. For most of us,success has always been a heady brew; even in our new life, it’s still possible to fall into the dangerous trap of “big-shotitis.” As insurance, we ought to remember that we’re free today only by the grace of God.

Will I remember that any success I have today is not mine but God’s?

Today I Pray
May I keep a constant string-on-the-finger reminder that I have found freedom through the grace of God – just so I don’t let my pride try to convince me I did it all myself. May I learn to cope with success by ascribing it to a Higher Power, not to my own questionable superiority.

Today I will Remember
Learn to deal with success.

Reflection for the Day

Posted by KenL - 11/17/09, 09:54 am
NOVEMBER 17 Reflection for the Day

Many of us recovering compulsive gamblers stubbornly cling to false ideas and positions simply because we fear we’d be left defenseless if we admitted having been wrong. The thought of “backing down” still seems distasteful to some of us. But we come to learn that our self-esteem soars when we’re able to push pride into the background and truly face the facts. Chances are that people with true humility have more genuine self-esteem than those of us who are repeatedly victimized by pride.

Does pride, either blatantly or deviously, keep me from thorough and continuing attention to the Tenth Step?

Today I Pray
May pride stay out of my way, now that I’ve found a road to follow. May I avoid that familiar, destructive cycle of pride – the ego that balloons up out of all proportion and then deflates with a fizzle. May I learn the value of “backing down.”

Today I will Remember
Pride is the arch-enemy of self-esteem.

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