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Nomophobia: A Modern Day Anxiety
Posted in Anxiety by Julie Cohen on May 02, 2008

Have you heard about this? Nomophobia is short for "No Mobile Phobia" which means a fear of being without your cell phone. This is an actual study that was commissioned by the British Post Office. They found out that over 13 million Brits suffer from Nomophobia. My first reaction, like many of you, was "Oh come on..."



But, as I thought about it I had second thoughts. I reflected on my own personal attachment to my cell phone. As much as I hate to admit it, I am very attached to it. In fact, when I go for my daily walks, my cell phone ranks with equal importance as my sunglasses, dog leash, poop bags, I.D. and keys. I always think before I leave the house that I need my phone in case "something" happens. To make matters worse I have to admit there have been occasions when I have returned to the house to fetch my phone when I realized that I forgotten it. Hello, my name is Julie and I too am a Nomophobic!


Well, fellow soul searchers how many of you can relate to this? Am I standing alone with my hand up? We live in a world that many of us have grown to fear and it feels like just going outside can be dangerous. Also, the idea of being unreachable for even a few minutes can feel ominous and frightening. If you suffer with anxiety and/or panic, or have been a victim of crime, this fear can become even more intense.


What I found even more interesting were their recommendations. For instance, keep your bill paid up in full so it won't be shut off; carry a charger with you at all times, give family and friends alternative contact numbers, carry a prepaid phone card if your phone becomes broken or disabled. Hmmm and finally, they suggest shutting off the phone and dealing with it. It seems that their recommendations, except for the last one, may actually fuel anxiety vs. reduce it. It encourages people to avoid their fear instead of facing it. Avoiding a trigger always increases anxiety.


As goofy as this article is, I know this is a real issue for people just like any other trigger of anxiety or panic. Approach it the same way you approach other triggers. I would be interested to hear others opinion, experience and solutions to this modern day anxiety.


CATEGORIES: News
CONDITIONS AND COMMUNITIES: Anxiety  •  Bipolar Disorder  •  Depression  •  Panic Attacks  •  Phobia
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i forgot my mobile one day and didn't bother to go back and get it... turned out to be a relaxing experience...no one bothered me... i had peace and quiet... they are a curse sometimes.
By 2beeper2  Jan 10, 2009
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I'm like this about my ipod. I have to have my ipod with me. I can live without my cell.. just not my ipod.
By blue13  May 14, 2008
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I too got to a point where I would turn my house upside down rather than leave it without my mobile! I got frustrated with the situation, wrote down why I had to have this thing with me (that let's face it, our parents did just fine without), and "lost" it. Told everyone who knows me I just can't find it. I know roughly where it is, and if I really needed it, I'd find it. But I was finding the pressure of being constantly on call for the next possible emergency really draining, and am much happier without it! Try it for a day... lose your phone and see how you go.
By Awake  May 09, 2008
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I'm one of the only people in my group of friends who is often thankful for not having a cell phone on them. I hate to be called and then feel obligated to reply. I'm more of an email kinda person. Therefore if let's me answer on my own time.

My family hates that I don't keep my cell phone on, but hey, whatcha gonna do?
By ChantyDS  May 07, 2008
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