10 Things Your Primary Care Doctor Does That Should Make You Run for the HillsThere are mixed reactions to the filming of Jade Goody during the end of her life after a struggle against cervical cancer. I am glad to see the discussion taking place. Jade Goody is a reality star in England who has finished her last salvage chemotherapy regimen for late stage cervical cancer, and has run out of treatment options. She is filming the end of her life for British TV and having pictures taken at her upcoming wedding.
I don't have mixed feelings about this. I am glad to see this happen and I'll tell you why. First, the money she is being paid doesn't bother me at all as I'm pretty certain her sons will benefit from this. I'd rather see them get it than the money managers at UBS bank.
Second, by far my most meaningful memories in medicine are being with patients and their families during decisions regarding end of life care, and serving as the primary care provider for my patients as they pass away from their illness. We may get to see some of the process take place with Jane Goody: when does she decide to go to hospice care? How is her pain and anxiety treated? How do her friends and family members deal her during the end of her life? I often find that for patients and families their visions of end of life suffering are from TV and movies until they actually see it. I remember seeing Tammy Faye Baker on Larry King weeks before she died from lung cancer and thinking many would be shocked at how she looked, not me. Your friends and family will look much different as they are dying from cancer after a long struggle with chemotherapy and seeing Jane Goody and Tammy Faye may prepare you a little more for that. Let me be blunt, it is true we can try to control pain, anxiety, and constipation at the end of life but we can't control that your loved ones will looked wasted, thin and pale with sunken eyes. If we see Jade Goody look this way as she enters the last stage of her life is that so bad? If it is disturbing to some they don't have to watch. All of us at some point will be making decisions for ourselves and our loved ones about pursuing yet another round of chemo, radiation, or another operation. Might it be helpful to be able to picture what the last stage may feel and look like?
Will this help? I'm not sure, but it can't hurt. The additional hope is that it focuses light on the importance of screening for a cancer that is easily preventable. I have a patient who has both breast and cervical cancer and she always told me that the support she received from others with breast cancer far overwhelmed the support she received about her cervical cancer. We have many on Dailystrength who are suffering from cervical cancer or were lucky to have their abnormal cervical cells caught early in a pap and are taking care of it. I don't know this girl at all but I do know the struggles people face with chemotherapy side effects, the pain of cervical cancer, anxiety when facing a terminal illness, and now you will too..... if you watch her on TV.
I'd love to hear your thoughts
Dr O.
As much as I hate pap smears I'd rather do that than die.
I personally think ,how she chooses to end her life ,is up to her ,nobody else~~after all ,this will be the last decission she makes ,so why shouldnt she have the final say.
According to the interviews she has done ,she is deciding to do this publicly ,firstly so her two young boys will have some financial security after her death ,and secondly ,to raise awareness of cervical cancer in young women.
With Jade we know it was missed 3 times~~she`d been in hospital with pain ,severe bleeding ,and then a miscarriage ,yet still they missed it~~was this because they assumed she was too young?? I guess we`ll never know that ,but we should all be grateful ,that this sick ,dying young woman is brave enough to go through the end of her life ,still with cameras filming her.
there has already been an increase in young girls having regular smear checks ,since this news has gone public~~surely this can only be a positive thing?
As to wether we watch her last moments ,if indeed she does let them continue to film ,then that is up to the individual.
I`m sorry ,but i do not like ppl moaning about it~~if you dont want to see this (and i dont know yet ,im sensitive ,and not sure if im as brave as her ,to see the end or not)~~but those who dont want to ,need only to switch channels ,or turn off their tvs ,its that simple.
I do commend Jade for what she is trying to get across to the general public ,not "glamourise" her situation ,as has been suggested by some papers over here.
This cannot have been easy to do ,and my heart and prayers go out to both her ,her two little boys ,and her family.
God bless jade ,you will never ever be forgotten ,and not just for your reality star status ,but for your unending courage.....
Some women actually get turned away from their doctor, because the doctor thinks they are too young to get cervical cancer. But this means young women are dying when it could have been prevented if treated early on.
My thoughts are with jade and her family
She has had such a difficult childhood and the money will ensure that her boys wont endure the same life.
I just wish there would be a miracle, I still cant really believe that she's dying, shes always been such a 'big' person in this country.
I am finding the documentaries very hard to watch and I have problems sleeping afterwards, but shes's doing it for the right reasons and I hope lots of people are encouraged to go for their smears. I was diagnosed with early cell changes 35 years ago and had them removed,I just hope that everyone will now go for smears.
I never thought I would say this, but I will miss Jade very much, shes a very remarkable young woman.
India took Jade by storm as they felt it was purposely racist. Jade would not know what that meant. When she was told in another 'Big Brother' she had cancer many thought it was a publicity stunt. Well, shame on you all.
Jade is living her 'terminal illness' in documentary form. For me, it has beeen hard to watch. She is so young, has two young children, broken relationships and a mum who previously had a drug addicition and can only now function with one arm due to a motorbike accident.
My sister-in-law lost her son at 27, he had five kids under 5 years old. Jade made the decision to get a deal with OK magazine so money brought in from that went to her sons. She knew she was dying after learning she had secondaries. This was why in the last documentary, Jade did not appear.
For all her faults, she did not deserve and does not deserve to die. Unfortunately, Jade cannot make a choice, it has been made for her.
I wish Jack, her two boys and her mum for staying brave. They will need support with a situation that ought not happen to a non-intellectual but lovable woman who went through a bad childhood but somehow made it good. Please never forget none of us are infalliable. Jade - may you rest in peace when your time has come, I will miss your insanity!
I had no idea at the time when I watched this beautiful movie, (1980;a) that I would one day watch and lose friends and family to this dreaded, terrible thing called cancer.
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