10 Things Your Primary Care Doctor Does That Should Make You Run for the HillsIn the last year I've had the opportunity to be a patient and a Doctor. I have frustrations like you do so I came up with my list.
1) Dr X leaves you waiting more than 45 minutes in the room on more than one occasion without an explanation or a quick apology when entering the room "I'm sorry to keep you waiting." Another way to handle it is to have the nurse let you know "Dr X is running 30 minutes late today so you can grab a coffee or a magazine"
2) Dr X's office provides no way for you to reach a HUMAN VOICE afterhours or on the weekends if you have a medical issue that requires attention THAT NIGHT.
3) Dr X smells like cigarette smoke. I get it...it's a hard habit to kick....but you can't smell like cigarettes when you are going to counsel your patients about modifying their risk factors for stroke and heart disease. You should cut it out during your clinic day.
4) Dr X doesn't touch you. You have a specific complaint (shortness of breath, knee pain, sore throat) and your primary care doctor doesn't look or listen to the affected area....maybe I'm old school but the answer so often lies in the physical exam
5) You are having severe pain (i.e. back pain after you lifted a couch), not relieved with over the counter meds, and Dr X is unwilling to prescribe pain meds for breakthrough pain because "they are addictive". We are dismal at treating pain in the primary care setting for unfounded fears of this. Short term use of Vicodin, Tylenol with codeine, etc for treatment of acute pain is completely fine for most patients.
6) You are talking about feeling depressed, sad or discussing a painful life event (the recent loss of a parent, etc) and you start to cry.... and you notice Dr X appears uncomfortable and tries to change the subject. Bad news.
7) A recent study showed that during 30% of primary care visits the doctor spent more time talking about themselves than they did the patient. Ok my patients often ask me how my kids are. 30 seconds...that's the amount of time I spend talking about myself. This visit is about YOU and we are already limited in what we can do in 15 minutes.
8) Dr X says "that's just part of getting old" when you have a complaint. Its true: arthritis, visual changes, decreased hearing, sun damaged skin are among the fun things that go along with getting old but WE CAN STILL HAVE A PLAN to deal with them and alter their course.
9) Dr X delivers bad news (loss of a pregnancy, a positive STD test, a new cancer diagnosis) with language that is short, sharp, rushed and without emotion. Some news will change a person's life forever and they will always remember that moment.....to add to it with a cold delivery is just painful.
10) Dr X can't say "I don't know what that is....but let's make sure it's not something worrisome". Often a patient has a pain, skin lesion, weird symptom that occurs only when they are doing such and such activity and I don't know WHAT it is. But it's your doc's job to admit that...and say they will do their best to monitor it and rule out worrisome things.
Am I missing anything?
Dr O.
I totally get this. Right before I was diagnosed with MS I went to my PCP because my back pain and leg weakness got a lot worse due to a fall after a shower. Her exact words were, "I have no idea what is wrong with you, you need an MRI I am sending you to the ER." The clinic I go to for my primary stuff does not have extensive testing mechanisms because of budget constraints with the university, but the clinic across town and hospital does.
I can totally respect this. She saw a problem. She realized that the problem was beyond her immediate expertise and beyond what the student health center could provide, so she sent me to get the adequate help for my condition. When she got the records back from the hospital and the neuro, it didn't suprise her that it was MS, but at the time she did not think of MS as a cause because MS is extremely hard to diagnose as it mimics so many other conditions at times.
I just hope that after I leave school I can find a decent PCP that will listen to my concerns and realize that I am not being a baby when there is something wrong with me!
The one time the doctor came in he asked if I wanted a screen put in my leg in case I get a blood clot. I said no. He checked my back and never said to take a deep breathe. After he left the doctor's assistant said she knew he had checked it but she needed to also. Sure she did, she needed to do it right!
At least I will know what he looks like if I ever have to go to the hospital and he walks in!
I hear more and more people say they don't ever see their doctor either. So what are these doctors doing all day? Just sitting there at a desk? taking a nap?
I was always accustomed to a doctor seeing me every time I came to the office so this was a shock. I know not all doctors are like this.
2..... Friday, I had a migraine a severe one, throwing up bad, so I called the clinic about 2:00, at 4:00 , no call yet, so my husband called back out there and the secretary apologized , she said they had been swamped with giving the flu shots, he just explained to her that I had a migraine and that I needed the rescue shot,, so she put him on hold and went and asked. and MY doctor said I don't have time to see her. O.k. just slap me in the face.. what she should have just said was I don't want to see her anymore. Oh she did say she'll just have to go to the after hours clinic. She knows I hate going out there, we have talked about it before!! I am now HUNTING A NEW DR!!!
I was hit in the head and I started having symptoms of seizures. I've been tested for seizures since I was young, and it's always been negative, but I knew about several types. Though I couldn't go to the doctor and say, I'm having this type of seizure, I was able to say, I am having these symptoms and I think they are seizures. My doctor took one look at me and diagnosed me with panic attacks. NO TESTS. Apparently, your eyes can't roll back into your head while your conscious (now, I've found out that my eyes have rolled back into my head a number of times -- or at least looked like it to the casual observer. And I am conscious. Just without awareness). She prescribed Paxil, sent me on my way. I talked to another doctor who actually LISTENED to what I was saying, sent me to the hospital for a video EEG and, guess what? New onset seizures, likely the result of a head trauma.
I know there are hypochondriacs and I may even be somewhat so, at least when it comes to weird new head symptoms following a hit to the head. But I would at least like them to be checked out. I pay for insurance and my insurance pays Dr. X not for the lovely conversation or the prescriptions (which I still have to help pay for), but for medical services. Advice. Consultation. PROPER diagnosis. You know, the things a good doctor is supposed to do.