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Cyndi Sarnoff-Ross is a licensed psychotherapist with almost twenty years of clinical experience in the fields of clinical psychology and organizational management br br She has worked extensively with a wide variety of…
The Study of Loneliness
Posted in Agoraphobia & S... by Cyndi Sarnoff-Ross on Feb 24, 2009

 


Loneliness is such a pervasive emotion among human beings that scientists have begun to look at the actual effects of loneliness on the brain. It has been determined that when people are socially isolated it affects not only how they behave, which seems obvious, but how their brains actually work.  The very fact of being lonely has some control over the individual's response to external stimuli.


MRI scans of the brain were used in some studies and revealed that when someone reports being lonely their brain scans look different from those of non-lonely individuals when shown pictures of happy people. Parts of the brain become activated or remain dormant during these studies to help differentiate stimulus response. The part of the brain they are focused on is called the ventral straitum and is crucial to learning.  It is activated by things like food and financial rewards and can even respond to positive social interactions and feelings of love.


Everyone has had some experience with the feeling of being lonely even if only fleeting, but anyone who has experienced profound loneliness knows how painful and often hopeless it can feel.  What science has offered is actual evidence that these feelings can be detrimental to one's health and one report cites the effects as being as harmful as smoking to an individual's overall well being.


Since just around 1 in 5 Americans suffer from this type of loneliness it is clearly worth some exploration into both the causes and the effects of this emotion.  Why is it that some people are able to reach out to others in the face of that feeling and thereby stave off the negative effects of social isolation while others retreat further into themselves and cut off the very thing that may alleviate the pain?  We know some of this behavior is a function of depression and some of it is due to social skills or learned behavior.


No matter what the cause, it is critical that clinicians encourage their patients not to isolate themselves and to help people find ways, and learn skills to connect with others.  This may mean getting their otherwise isolated patients into a group setting or helping them to compile a list, no matter how short, of people they can touch base with when they are feeling particularly lonely.  While isolating is a symptom of many other mental health conditions, as the studies have shown, it can also be a cause on its own accord of mental and physical suffering.


 


 


 


 



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I think it does lead to alot of unhealthy ailments, I know when it creeps in on me I have to react and go do something even if its a walk thru walmart just to be around people, I think the nursing homes can add alot of info. to this as well ,so many folks never have a vistor
By beckysad  Feb 25, 2009
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I would like to read the entire study. I agree that in many cases it is a learned behavior. I experienced isolation as a form of punishment throughout childhood up until I was 16. Unfortunately, this creates a vicious circle that compounds the problem. It has cost me anything that ever mattered in my life, family, friends, etc. I am just starting to admit this is a problem with me, the way I think and approach life in general. The sad fact is I am 47 and in all reality my life is half over. All I can do is try to do better this second half.
By Malacon  Feb 25, 2009
7
I might be a good study for this. After devistating loss of myself due to 10 yrs in a confusing abusive relationship that completely isolated me only to find my way home to a devistating loss from the effects of a natural disaster, I have spent the last 3 years trying to get back on my feet. I am living in a strange town, filled with strange people (bible belt) I find that I have been physically deteriorating steadily. I am still living isolated and the loneliness is unbelievable. I know that I have to move to a better environment and hope to find my way to making friends, but with the horrible experience I have had with relationships and life in general I have no idea if I will ever even be able to make friends or find a loving relationship. What I do know is that I cannot continue to live like this but not sure how I can change it especially with the financial problems and lack of life skills. I was also abused as a child and never really had friends because I was the kid from the poor family and always rediculed so it has been a struggle for me. I did have times when I had friends and family but that is no longer the case. I think the anger that comes with experience and isolation also contributes to my physical problems. Weight gain is the worse "side effect" that I battle with that affects self esteem. I also feel that if I had friends and family in my life along with just a little love I would not be overweight and lonely. So this is a good study and well worth looking at.
By desrtrse  Feb 25, 2009
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Loneliness is rampant among older people - especially those with health problems; and even otherwise healthy individuals. Their spouses have died or left, decreased mobility due to illness or no car driving anymore, children are grown and gone, friends and relatives die or relocate.
And.....it's harder to reach out as you get older; you're afraid of rejection or of upsetting your own daily routine with 'strangers'.
Pets are helpful, very helpful.
I love the notion of older people who are able, adopting older dogs. Not only for the company, but for the socialization. You have to walk a dog. At the least, it gets you outside; even better - you meet up with other like minded pet owners=== and who knows ---- friendships could result.

But the issue of isolation and loneliness in older people merits urgent study and action!
By Borntobethin  Feb 25, 2009
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Loneliness is rampant among older people - especially those with health problems; and even otherwise healthy individuals. Their spouses have died or left, decreased mobility due to illness or no car driving anymore, children are grown and gone, friends and relatives die or relocate.
And.....it's harder to reach out as you get older; you're afraid of rejection or of upsetting your own daily routine with 'strangers'.
Pets are helpful, very helpful.
I love the notion of older people who are able, adopting older dogs. Not only for the company, but for the socialization. You have to walk a dog. At the least, it gets you outside; even better - you meet up with other like minded pet owners=== and who knows ---- friendships could result.

But the issue of isolation and loneliness in older people merits urgent study and action!
By Borntobethin  Feb 25, 2009
4
this is a great article! ive felt lonely for sum months now, i guess it was sort of my choice. after gettin suspended 4rm college for a semester i fell into a great depression an had to move back wit my parents. an i turned off my cell an cut my friends off cuz they dont wanna hear my troubled mind all the time. now all i got is dis site an tv,food,sleep. hurts alot...im tryin to figure out wha i wanna do wit my life an how to go about doin it but my anxiety holds me bac along wit my depression.
again, very good article!
By unhappi21  Feb 25, 2009
3
I was always taught, by my mother, not to bother people unless they approached you first. She always told me that other people didn't want to be bothered by me and I should leave them alone. That's why it's so hard for me to call people when I'm depressed or need help. I don't want to bother people or be a pest or interrupt what they're doing.
So I'm mostly alone with my cats.
By ALC67  Feb 25, 2009
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I like this article, it reads very true and I for one, know the feelings of loneliness can overtake and over power you to such an extent that you just retreat to try to stop the pain. Been there often.
Why don't they do studies like this in England? How can this article help to alleviate loneliness? It would be great if a cure for this could be found. God, I make it sound like a disease. In some ways I wish it was, then I - and others like me - could go to the doctors for a remedy.
Brilliant article, keep up the good work.
By fedupoflife  Feb 25, 2009
1
It is good to have awareness of how lonliness can affect us, in some very big ways. Even though people can behave in undesirable ways, we all still, -- need each other.
Good article.
By page  Feb 25, 2009

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