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New Hope for Those with Borderline Personality Disorder
Posted in Anxiety by Cyndi Sarnoff-Ross on Sep 10, 2009

The topic of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) was a main focus at the American Psychiatric Association's annual meeting this past May. Mental health professionals have long been perplexed by this diagnosis and at a loss for good treatment options. The diagnosis itself has taken on a profoundly negative connotation over the years and just the name conjures up images of unpleasant fictional characters portrayed in the media. In many cases people with this disorder have gotten a bad rap. It was recently revealed, based on a study done by the federal government of over 24,000 adults, that the prevalence of this disorder is about 6%. The disorder is equally present in men and women. This number is far greater than previously thought.

A patient presenting with symptoms of BPD is typically seen as extremely challenging for most clinicians. Many patients go undiagnosed for years and instead are given many other diagnoses that seem to fit only part of their unique disorder. The misdiagnosis then leads to improper or inferior treatment. Borderline Personality Disorder has previously been classified as the result of childhood abuse. In this way it has been somewhat misunderstood. Recent research has shown that there is in fact a biological predisposition to the basic symptoms of the disorder. Abuse will increase a person's chances for developing the disorder but not everyone with BPD has a history of abuse. One of the things that this distinction hopes to clear up is the belief that the person with BPD is being deliberately manipulative and combative. These beliefs have made it more difficult for sufferers of BPD to get unbiased treatment from clinicians and understanding from loved ones.

In addition to redefining the nature of the disorder, the attention it has received lately has helped educate family and friends of people afflicted with BPD. This is a critical step in the healing process for these individuals because a consistency in relationships is crucial to these individuals. There has been a movement towards more family and patient advocacy and providing better treatment and referral services. According to a Los Angeles Times report, the National Alliance for the Mentally Ill, a well-known patient advocacy group, has placed BPD on its list of "priority populations" for public policy efforts. This increased awareness and focus on the disorder is very good news for those who have lived with this diagnosis and for the people who love them.

 


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Let's have a definition --- all I got out of the above in terms of describing the condition is "manipulative" and "combative" -- which doesn't appl always. Is BPD any mental disorde --- but not very prominent? Is it a blend?
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By mar4ela  Nov 04, 2009
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needing help and support wit BPD.. anyone with personal experience feel free to message me.
By dolphndreamr  Oct 22, 2009
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To Cindi and Terriann1000,
Terriann, i would question whether your mother had BPD or in fact suffered from a Pervasive Developmental Disorder, perhaps an Autistic Spectrum Disorder or PDD NOS (Not Otherwise Specified), comorbid with behavioral issues of some sort. I myself was at different times diagnosed with BPD with Schizoaffective characteristics, Clinical Depression, GAD, ODD, and eventually ADHD. I was finally diagnosed with AS by a clinical psychologist who knew what he was looking at. I am now receiving appropriate treatment, and having much greater success with dealing with all of my issues, and pulling together the whole picture of my life. I too was clumsy as a child, had poor motor skills in some areas, could never manage my finances well, and had issues with combative behavior as i entered junior high school then high school. I continued to have meltdowns up into my forties even. It turned out eventually that all of these were misdiagnoses, because there are characteristics of Autistic Spectrum Disorders and of other PDDs which can manifest like the charateristics of other disorders if taken separately. With Asperger's, they are increasingly discovering that women with AS don't necessarily manifest in the same ways as men, and in fact there is increasing evidence that the 4/1 men to women ratio for AS may be greatly in error, due to underdiagnosis of women with AS. We don't act like men with AS, and we can also at times manifest with behavioral issues that look like BPD! Tony Attwood, an Australian researcher and therapist for folks with ASDs, has a great deal to say about the issue of AS in women. His writings on the subject are a great place to start, if you're interested. I am not saying by any means that those diagnosed BPD should jump to the conclusion that they actually have AS, but it is possible for this misdiagnosis to occur.
By Rylee55  Sep 17, 2009
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Russocomedy: i applaud your tenaciousness in dealing with your condition! and even more, that you are so encouraging of others to do the same.
i was diagnosed with BPD quite a few years ago, but somehow didn't seem to fit the stereotypical form. i read the book "Walking on Eggshells" and could not relate to much of it. i didn't feel the anger that seemed to be primary focus, i was more than compliant in treatment, both with medication and therapy, and my impulsivity wasn't so extreme, so i questioned my diagnosis. like it or not...it was there.
what i most learned is that, indeed, BPD IS very individualized! we can't be clumped into a single group, treatment isn't the same for all, and our own acceptance and self-driven desire to find an end to this (for ALL with BPD) is as personal as anything in our lives can be.
i think we who suffer from BPD need to be vigilant in making sure that the 'outside world' sees that our disease process is as different for each of us as we are we are individual in every other way.
the 'list of symptoms' that tie us to each other is very real. we have a responsibility to ourselves to stay informed, to learn all we can about BPD, but also to inform others.
By tadlem  Sep 16, 2009
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My older daughter suffers from BPD. Luckily, she knows of bipolar disorder running in our family, and severe depression running in her paternal side. She is so wonderful and seeks help but her bad moods are horrific and destructive. In my opinion, she did have a good but not excessive childhood, but after 2 operations, she was unable to have children due to entrometriosis and it cost her her marriage. She had severe dairy allergies. Growing up, occasionally her breath would have a distintive odor, almost sweet. Diabetis testing proved negative. Now, I have noticed the exact same odor on my granddaughter, 9, who has no allergies, for the first time. Is there a connection?
By Oaktree123  Sep 16, 2009
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the biggest problem with BPD is to get them to accept that there is something terribly wrong and that they need help. They think the rest of the world is crazy and mostly refuse to get help or if they do than the person they saw was the crazy one. So good luck with that
By desrtrse  Sep 14, 2009
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For those of you that want more information defining Borderline Personality Disorder you can read my earlier blog on the subject:
http://www.dailystrength.org/blog/...

In terms of the "hope" that these new insights into the disorder provides, nettbaw was correct in writing that it is in the increased awareness. Whenever particular attention is paid to any disorder - whether it is in the physical or mental health area - the opportunity to develop new treatments increases. More awareness means more resources and more support for sufferers.
By CSR  Sep 14, 2009
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Just a quick thanks...though most of the article related to overview one point stood out: " because a consistency in relationships is crucial to these individuals..." for one that has suffered and lost in his own BPD/BP/ADD wrestling match, in my body, in my heart and soul...for nearly 80 years...5 marriages...the last...gratefully lasted over thirty years...still counting...the result of that very "consistency" in the character of my marriage partner...I am still in pursuit of the ideal therapy 24/7. I comment for the purpose of encouraging the writer and reader of this article...in my last days. Though we do not have all the answers...once upon a time...on a positive note....even a search for such answers was "forbidden." Symptoms were not called symptoms back then but the work of the devil. I've learned to turn to God as the central point of my focus on "consistency" and in the trial and error of science for therapy by those that hold out 'hope' like this writer, despite all failure to the contrary. For those like me who have suffered torture at the hands of the abuser, as well, the arrogance, ignorance, and prejudice of those in society and in the insurance and health industry at large today...I applaud the writer of this article for taking on the challenge and that reader who like myself, despite limitations, carry on the work and encourage one another towards balance, good health and function ability.
By russocomedy  Sep 14, 2009
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What about treatment for narcissist social path? Lou
By louis51  Sep 14, 2009
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Okay, I have an admission to make. After reading the comments below this article, I recognized myself there. When I initially made my comment, I hadn't read what was below. I am most often impulsive like that, and now I see that as one of the many problems I have. Over the past ten years, I've had at least six Lesbian relationships after having been married to a man for 12 years. I went from woman to woman, therapist to therapist, looking for whatever it was that was missing from my life. Now, I'm back with my original husband, feeling like a bird trapped in a cage. To have sex with him, I have to disassociate myself and go "somewhere else" because it's so repugnant to me, but I do it, just to survive. Anytime I'm given any free reign over money, I spend it until it's gone, but I just can't seem to stop, it's like a starving person consuming food. Satisfaction or happiness seems just out of reach, and I feel I'm stunted at about the age of 14, emotionally, yet I'm 55 years old. I look at myself in horror in the mirror, wondering who that woman is. My last therapist informed me that soon my insurance would stop paying for some of my medications, because she had been approached to write justifications for my being on them, and she was just done doing that. What kind of hope is there, does the writer of this article think? I saw a lot of skirting around the issue, myself.
By RaeDreams  Sep 14, 2009
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I was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder about 12 years ago. I was given the book "I Hate You! Don't Leave Me!" to read, and in those pages I saw case studies and personal accounts that I didn't feel related to me much at all. Then, about five years ago, I was diagnosed as Bi-Polar, and given Depakote in addition to my depression medications. I continue to be depressed and confused. I find myself wishing we could just do away with all of these titles and diagnoses, and just deal with people individually, not as lumped up diagnosis profiles. That's just my opinion.
By RaeDreams  Sep 14, 2009
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i've been diagnosed with BPD and before they found the right medication I was always angry taking it out on my county workers; stressed to the max and feeling like I was crazy. I admitted myself twice to the psych ward and after 3 days i leave with the same meds and nothing else. Now I feel good and I feel after all these years I found the right meds. But in my papers from Social Security Disiability; which I'm receiving, it is stated that I have BPD, anxiety, etc. I'm I psych major and have worked with people with disabilities and seeing the LABELS I was given within those papers made me really wonder about myself and it scared me.

Today I don''t care anymore that I'm on meds I feel good, i'm alot more calmer and I still see my psych dr and my neuro.

Jolene
By JoleneH63  Sep 14, 2009
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I have never met a person with BPD that did not come from abuse or very poor parenting.

But is great news that finally the myth that BPD are manipluative is getting debunked.BPD is very painful for those who suffer it, and i'm sorry but is mostly abuse or dysfunctional families who cause it.
By megaq10  Sep 13, 2009
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My GS with BP/ ADHD has been to a handful of psyc.drs who put him on meds as a first course of treatment. Everytime he went there he 'didnt have much to say' so they never made any effort to get into his brain and get him talking. The fact that they charge an enormous amount of money and usually dont take benefits made it impossible for his mother to afford continuing to take him there. The outcome has been a disaster. He been hospitalized twice, ran away from home several times, threatened to kill himself, cut school and the worst..taking drugs and alcohol..Im sure to self medicate. He is only 15yrs old and he's been in so much trouble already. I'd like to get advise on how to get him good professional help in the West Palm Beach area of So. Florida..Thank-you
By gma2  Sep 12, 2009
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I think this article should have given more background on the issue of what is borderline personality disorder first, then discuss what treatments are available to help folks who have it nowadays.. But that is just my opinion. BTW DBT does help not only the BPD folks but is really a great therapy for many folks.
By mianutzy  Sep 12, 2009
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I think it stinks that therapists who go into the helping profession pick what they want to treat. We come to them for help and they turn us away. My way of thinking is if you don't like the kitchen and the hot grease, get out of the kitchen. Do they ever think about us? Oh yes, that would make them narracistic if they only thought of themselves. That would never happen. I have suffered a great deal from previous therapists and their attitudes so I have a little bitterness when I read your article.
By dancinglady  Sep 12, 2009
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I agree that the article leaves much to be desired except to those who were on page 15 or 50 with the writer...For those it helped, wonderful. For those of us hoping to be enlightened and possibly beingbetter able to relate to someonewho experiencesit, I guess we'll have to "google".
By HopefulBRLA  Sep 12, 2009
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Hi, I have had personality changed for 42yrs of my life i am not 47yrs old, i have 37#personality's. Thru the years i have had to change.. KEY>> change to fit new people in my life, to make them happy.

long story long life.. My wonderful doctor put me on Pryexa and it stopped it took 2 yrs but it was worth it, i have some mood changes now and i still have 4 sets of cloths in my closet so i know i change to that, but it is not bad com paired to what i was. My doctor Jenkins in Carson valley Nevada, saved my life.

When all others had not faith in me he did, he changed my entire world.

now! I can live an have lived a good life, however i am still a homebody to do my world but i am working on this with EA Emotions Anonymous they are helping me find a new thinking for my hurt soul.

I have never met anyone like me, and I hope i never do for I know the life i have had to live. And what my ex husband when through.

But my kids are still with me and i have helped them finish college, I also help raise my daughter.

I can not live on my own do to my disability, but at the same time I love being with my family, it is only my son in law and daughter that are kind enough to deal with me.. Thank you..
By Sillyatheart3  Sep 12, 2009
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Though never officially diagnosed with BPD, I found I displayed all the symptoms except suicide attempts. I think that there needs to be more affordable DBT groups. If a person with BPD is supposed to do both regular therapy and and group for DBT exercises...that can quickly add up to almost $800 a month in therapy. No normal human being can afford that. Mental health care needs to be less expensive, more accessible, and better coordinated. I'm very happy to know that BPD is getting more attention from the psychiatric community. When I mentioned to a new therapist that I might have it, he said quickly that he's not "that kind of therapist" and "can't be available all the time"...etc...I don't need that kind of care, but you can see how the prejudice works even in the counseling community. I truly believe I am recovering from BPD...that I'm past my most severe symptoms from childhood, but it is discouraging indeed to see that even as a recovering person...that there is just so much negativity against people whose very heart of their diagnosis is the need to be validated...and rejection seems to be too often the case. sigh.
By catleya  Sep 12, 2009
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I was diagnosed with BPD years ago from cutting myself and burning myself with cigarettes, and, at the age of 40 acting out and yelling as a child would. I was told that people who have BPD also will never be able to have a long-term relationship with a significant other, and that there was no medication or other treatment that would keep this disorder "in check" as other mental challenges can be. Is this true?
By FreedomfromFear  Sep 12, 2009

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