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		<title>Family &amp; Friends of Cancer Patients Advice: Ive hit a wall - DailyStrength</title>
		<description>I don't know what to do anymore, and I have no idea where to go from here. 

I have been extremely hesitant to join a support group, becau...</description>
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			<title>Comment by catholbrook</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Family_and_Friends_of_Cancer_Patients/advice/13760679-ive-hit-wall/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I know you are frustrated.  But you can't control what other people say or do.  But you can control how you react.  What does your conscious tell you to do? 
 Some people say to give space.  Some people will say you need to sit her down and have a heart to heart.  In any case, it sounds like she is h...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 09:15:35 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Lizzie</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Family_and_Friends_of_Cancer_Patients/advice/13760679-ive-hit-wall/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I am so sorry you are going through this.  
  
 I think you can call it emotional abuse. To me that sounds like exactly what it is. It is understandable because of her own suffering and what happened to her mother, and there is a lot of help and support available if she wants to accept it. But if she ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 09:50:02 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by sweetnsour123</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Family_and_Friends_of_Cancer_Patients/advice/13760679-ive-hit-wall/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[You are doing a good job of being understanding. No matter what she says she still loves you like the way you love her, she probably feels scared and feels that no one understands what she is going through.  
 My sister has cancer and I care for her 24/7. I have given up my uni studies for now to loo...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sun, 19 Feb 2012 17:35:37 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Roxy Rodarte Edwards</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Family_and_Friends_of_Cancer_Patients/advice/13760679-ive-hit-wall/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I feel for your problem.  You are faced with two difficult choices,  stick with her and find a way to make it better or <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Leave">leave</a> her alone until she calms down.  Talk with your dad on your feelings and tell her that she either gets help or she loses a daughter.  You are too important of a person to let...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2012 12:23:31 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Roxy Rodarte Edwards</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Family_and_Friends_of_Cancer_Patients/advice/13760679-ive-hit-wall/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[That first reply was from my husband 'Russel' he has terminal colon cancer.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 12:51:03 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by tiredoldgal</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Family_and_Friends_of_Cancer_Patients/advice/13760679-ive-hit-wall/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Please go ahead and find a support group for yourself. It will help you immensely. Your mother sounds as if she is suffering from depression. Depression can be manifested as extreme anger sometimes, it is not always sadness, <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Crying" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Crying')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Crying">crying</a>, etc. I get angry at the world when my depression creeps up on me. M...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 06:27:05 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by orangesd</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Family_and_Friends_of_Cancer_Patients/advice/13760679-ive-hit-wall/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Hi, this sounds like a rough time but I can relate. My dad has stage IV cancer. The best thing you can do for yourself and the number one rule of caregivers, is to take care of yourself first. You might feel bad or guilty by taking a break from the stress but a break, even if its just going to schoo...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 10 Mar 2012 19:18:20 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by windfall</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Family_and_Friends_of_Cancer_Patients/advice/13760679-ive-hit-wall/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Hey, my moms got cancer and she finished <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Radiotherapy" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Radiotherapy')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Radiotherapy">radiotherapy</a> about 3ish weeks ago so it's all pretty recent and I can relate to about 80% of what you're saying.  
 I don't have time to type everything out, but if you want to talk, send me a message or we can chat.  
  
 And if I find a way to cope with it all...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 24 Mar 2012 17:14:20 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by kkoshiyama</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Family_and_Friends_of_Cancer_Patients/advice/13760679-ive-hit-wall/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I can absolutely relate to 90% of what you're saying...you are not alone here and I am going through something extremely similar myself.  My mom was just diagnosed with stage IV cancer for the third time, and I'm a little older than you, I just graduated from grad <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Education" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Education')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about School">school</a>, but am still feeling the bu...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sun, 25 Mar 2012 14:03:47 +0100</pubDate>
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