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		<description>I don't know what to do. Last night my husband pushed me to the floor and I hit the fridge and fell on the heater. It left a big bruise on m...</description>
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			<title>Comment by IleneW</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Hon : 
  
 Here's a number to call: 
  
 (517) 347-7000 
  
  
 It's your state's women's resources. 
 Please call it RIGHT AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
  
  
 Both you and your precious children 
 are with a DANGEROUS ABUSER. 
  
 (You KNOW he's an abuser or 
 you wouldn't be posting here.) 
  
 Things to ke...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2012 08:43:16 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by mjpg</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I went through over 9 tears of this. My 3 children saw so much. Last incident happened bout a month & half ago. My 3 yr old still tells his dad u beat momma up.  Please get out & in therapy.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2012 10:41:52 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by nsrnsr</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Hi  
  
 I'm new on this board, but will tell you this is clearly not right!  No one has the right to put a hand on you or yell or scream.  If you don't <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Leave">leave</a> right away it will only get worse.  Your life can be in danger.  Don't let your children get traumatized any further.   
 I know its going to be...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2012 10:58:25 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by JillieBean71</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Ilene said it all....get help for you and your children now. 
  
 Get out.........SAFELY. Don't tip him off!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2012 11:43:52 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by dreamchimes</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[please follow all the advice given and <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Leave">leave</a> as soon as you safely can, the situation is going to get worse, that's a certainty. whenever you need to talk and feel like you can't speak to those around you come to this group and speak here they are great and we will support you. talk to the dv helpli...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2012 12:53:58 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by LMKSQ</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[OMG that is just too horrible.  You do not want your children living in this kind of situation.  You can be killed if you stay.   
  
 Listen to those of us who care about you and your children.  Ilene has given an number to call and like the others said.  DO NOT LET HIM KNOW YOU PLAN TO <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Leave">LEAVE</a>!!!!!!!!...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2012 12:57:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by rachelrachel</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I took my two kids and went to a shelter. 
  
 BEST MOVE EVER!!!!!! 
  
 they will help you to get on your feet. 
  
 you need to get out. it's bad enough already, but will only get worse.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2012 13:30:51 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by mom0812</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[He went to the doc. Today and admitted to them that he needs help. They put him on <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Abilify" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Abilify')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Abilify">abilify</a> and are gonna take blood work to see if something could be causing these rage attacks. I told him I'm gonna call the cops next time. He said ok. I don't want my son to grow up without his dad because I know if...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2012 18:50:03 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by beansprout</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Mom, if you arent going to <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Leave">leave</a> him, can I ask that you get some kind of emergency escape plan in place - just in case?  Gather together all of your important documents, birth certificates, drivers license, spare car keys, money, get some clothes in a bag and hide it either somewhere safe in your h...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2012 18:57:49 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by sassygray5</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I am so sorry that you are going through this. You and your family do not deserve this treatment! It is dangerous to you and your kids for you to be with him. He has already proven that he is violent. Please try to find somewhere else to stay immediately. Even if you think there is nowhere to go, th...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2012 19:06:19 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Livndadrem</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I really want to echo what beansprout said. 
  
 You don't have to <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Leave">leave</a> unless you are ready to.  You won't be judged here either way.  But if this new pill doesn't work, he is incredibly dangerous and you need to have a "back up" plan.  Just in case. 
  
 Better to be over prepared for something that ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2012 23:12:56 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by GottaKeepTryin</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Please get out NOW!  You and your children do not deserve this!!  He is dangerous! 
  
 It's not your job to make him better....and his issues are NOT your fault. 
  
 Like Ilene said, contact a women's shelter in your area.  Here is another number for you....1-800-799-7233.  It's the National Domestic ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2012 23:28:17 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Silenttears1</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Please go to a shelter they will help you with every thing you need, I know you may be scared of going to a shelter, But they are not bad and you will be protected and safe, He will continue to be abusive they always are and it just gets worse and worse, They will find you housing, Give you the coun...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jul 2012 01:04:27 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by McMercy</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Definitely consider the women's shelter idea.  They are such a great support. 
   
 You are being abused. Your children are being abused.  You will NOT be ruining your children's lives by leaving. In fact you may be saving their lives.   
  
 Your husband's behavior is not only totally unacceptable, it ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jul 2012 06:05:26 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by mom0812</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Thank you everyone I'm so happily overwhelmed that all of you care so much....I do have a place to go... My mom and dad want me to move back home... There I would have a room and a room for my kids. I do have a backup plan. And if this pill don't help him and he rages out one more time I'm gone. I w...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jul 2012 07:23:04 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by omg71968</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[PLEASE GET OUT NOW FOR THE SAKE OF YOURSELF AND THOSE BABIES!]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jul 2012 08:56:40 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Livndadrem</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Glad you have a back up plan, and happy that you are saying one more rage and that's it. 
  
 Stick to it. 
  
 One more rage means it's not changing.  And you know what?  If you are wrong, and he really DOES change, getting out and getting your kids safe doesn't prevent him changing and proving his cha...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jul 2012 09:19:56 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Littlekatya</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I'm glad you have a backup plan too--he sounds really dangerous, and you and your kids don't deserve that. 
  
 If I may suggest, I don't think you should tell him your ultimatum--one more rage and I <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Leave">leave</a>. 
  
   Sometimes people get more violent when they think that their target is leaving.  Of course...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jul 2012 10:41:13 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by mjpg</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[It's good he is on meds. But I'm telling you sweetie another rage will happen. Please get you & your kids out. There were so many rages that I honestly thought I would die. By the grace of God I didn't.  Please please get out & go to your parents. I know have so many back & neck problems from my yea...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jul 2012 10:48:20 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by janine0901</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Hello my name is Janine and I just got done <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Reading" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Reading')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Reading">reading</a> your story and it broke my heart . It felt as If I was <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Reading" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Reading')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Reading">reading</a> about the life I live. It's not fun and it will only get worse. I have been with my boyfriend for 18 yrs and we have to handsome boys 12 and 4 . My oldest has lived thru most of the hor...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jul 2012 12:50:01 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by McMercy</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Please please do not wait for a next time. 
  
 Sure, keep him calm for now (by 'now' I mean the next hours, not days), but only so that you can make good your escape. 
  
 Take your babies and anything you want to keep, and run away.  Bear in mind that you may not be able to get anything back once you ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jul 2012 05:42:39 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by mom0812</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I hate myself.... Now he won't even touch me at all... In a non violent way I mean .. I feel so unwanted and ugly :(]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jul 2012 12:52:52 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by mom0812</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Now he won't touch me ... In a non violent way I mean... I feel so ugly and unwanted.. :(]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jul 2012 12:56:23 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by MyTrueColors</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Please GET OUT NOW!!! If for nothing else, for the sake of the children.  The chances that he will kill you & your children rise exponentially every minute you stay.   
  
 Go to a women's shelter NOW and they will help you get <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Psychotherapy" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Psychotherapy')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Counseling">counseling</a> so that you can rebuild your self esteem and KNOW in your heart...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jul 2012 13:24:19 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by mjpg</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[That is another thing form of abuse & control. My ex would do that. Please please get out]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jul 2012 16:58:25 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by kazb25</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[when my ex was raging at me all the time he said he had gone to the docs and had tests and they found not that when he had his accident when he fell and banged into a tree(long story) that he hit a gland and damaged it and they asked him if he gets angry and he said yes and they said this was why he...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jul 2012 19:26:46 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by kazb25</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[continued. . . But he magically got better! My point being is that a pill will not fix him. My ex is still an abuser he will never change he is just able to be nice to me now. He still abuses me in less intense ways wiv a smile on his face. U should not wait to see if he attacks u or your children a...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jul 2012 19:33:56 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Livndadrem</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Turn the anger where it belongs - to the person treating you badly.  Just because one person treats you as though you were worthless, it doesn't make you worthless. 
  
 The fact that someone treats a diamond like cut glass, doesn't turn the diamond to cut glass, it just makes that person a fool.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jul 2012 20:25:36 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by msaishe73</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[How Are you doing today?]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jul 2012 22:09:30 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by angel grace55</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Please listen to what we are saying here. You need to get you and your babies out right  now, before it's too late!! Do not let on to him that you are doing this........Call your local domestic violence hot line. Do not call from your home , use a payphone. You are stronger than you think you are!!T...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2012 03:47:47 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by tryingtoletgo</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14599644-please-help-me/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I waited for 22 years of wasted time, waiting for changes that NEVER came! i LIVED IN hELL! THEY DONT CHANGE! it only gets worse!  
 My children are still suffering emotionally, even with 3 years of <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Psychotherapy" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Psychotherapy')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Counseling">counseling</a>! 
 Please take our advice! weve all been there already! and most of us have escaped and are ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2012 10:57:26 +0100</pubDate>
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