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		<title>Physical &amp; Emotional Abuse Forum: 4 years after the end... - DailyStrength</title>
		<description>First of all I would like to thank all of you without whom I would never have had the courage to break up the relation.
I was in an emotion...</description>
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			<title>Comment by hockeymom5592</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14249511-4-years-after-end/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[isha, just because you don't see him paying, yet...doesn't mean he won't.  And just because you see a picture of them smiling, happy, doesn't mean they are.   
  
 Did you never smile when you were with him, were you not blissful, on the occasions when he was not abusing you?  I don't believe he is tr...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 06:02:10 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by ishaRelive</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14249511-4-years-after-end/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Hi Hockeymom.. 
  
 Thanks for your inspiring words. 
 About my life, it is not perfect but far better that what I ever had earlier.I feel peace and calm in a relationship which I was not able to feel earlier.So, I am really thankful to God for that!! 
 Measuring it against what I wanted, I will say I a...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 07:21:01 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by IleneW</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14249511-4-years-after-end/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[hockeymom is a wise, wise woman. 
  
 Her reply was succinct but pretty much 
 said it all. 
  
 Here's what I would add: 
  
  
 From the outside of his head and his life, 
 you really can't know what he got, what he 
 didn't get, what his life is like, what his 
 days and nights feel like, what he thinks 
 ab...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 09:03:01 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by rachelrachel</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14249511-4-years-after-end/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I was with someone abusive when I was in my early 20s. he was a layabout-always jobless, taking money from me (and I was struggling, working in a cafe, living in a really expensive city).. 
  
 I finally got away from him (luckily for me, he met someone else and started cheating on me and broke up wit...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 09:50:40 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by JillieBean71</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14249511-4-years-after-end/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[This may sound a little harsh, but I ask that you sit down and really think about these questions, no matter how much it may upset you..... 
  
 If this man has been out of your life for over 4 years, then why are you still beating yourself up over him? Do you realize that you are abusing yourself FOR...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 10:00:33 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by dkbraymond</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14249511-4-years-after-end/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I can understand how you feel. I was in a similar situation years ago. My jerkwad ex who was also abusive too me, got decent promotion, got married and had two kids. 
 Not even two years later, he lost his job, got thrown out of his home and divorced! 
 I on the other hand have since gotten married an...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 17:34:33 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by jlbch42</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14249511-4-years-after-end/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA["why are you still beating yourself up over him? Do you realize that you are abusing yourself FOR him?? And he isn't even around? Why do you feel like you don't deserve to have the happiness you now have??" 
  
 OMG Jillie, this was profound!  I'm going to try and hold on to this for the next time I n...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 22:41:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by LIfebutnotasweknowit</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14249511-4-years-after-end/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[It's very hard for them to keep the asshole inside locked up for so long. Eventually it comes out and people see them for what they are. Mine eventually got the sack from his high paying job.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 12 May 2012 06:00:56 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by IleneW</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14249511-4-years-after-end/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Yeah, Jillie. . . . .  
  
 good stuff.    
  
  
  
 Part of what an abuser does 
 is <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Leave">leave</a> a viral legacy.  After 
 the initial attack, they <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Leave')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Leave">leave</a> 
 their abuse inside our brain. 
  
 They can be gone.  They  
 can be DEAD.   But we 
 hear their words and the 
 words still sloshing around 
 in our head, that the...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 12 May 2012 08:28:50 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by utterpain</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14249511-4-years-after-end/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I see where you're coming from and I definitely understand why you're upset... sometimes karma takes a longer time to catch up to someone. Marriages can end in <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Divorce" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Divorce')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Divorce">divorce</a>. Companies can go bankrupt. Who knows, things may always look perfect for him from the outside, but that doesn't mean that they actu...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 12 May 2012 10:42:03 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by ishaRelive</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14249511-4-years-after-end/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Thanks Ilene, you were comforting and truly understanding as always.You have been one of the biggest support I had during the tough phase.Please share the Clarifying Index card as I was unable to find it. What you said about leving their abuse in our head was like hitting the nail on the head. Yes, ...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 01:08:36 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Grace710</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Sometimes it does seem like people who are not nice to us. Never get punish but people do reap what they sow]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 05:24:35 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by wvartgirl</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Physical_Emotional_Abuse/forum/14249511-4-years-after-end/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Remind yourself, hon, Abusers Never Change. Your ex is as evil as he ever was, now maybe he has a better mask. I assure you that the woman he is with will be abused. You may be 100% certain of that. 
  
 There was an article out recently that estimates that 10% of successful Wall Street workers are na...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 10:45:10 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by ishaRelive</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Grace, Wvartgirl..Thanks for the much needed supported. Yes, God has his mysterious way of working but you do pay for your deeds :-)]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 01:04:05 +0100</pubDate>
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