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		<title>Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) Advice: Really Gross - DailyStrength</title>
		<description>I apologize up front.. this is really gross.  But I don't know what to do.  The problem is with my 17yr old.. the one that has ODD.  She has...</description>
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			<title>Comment by Sowle</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Oppositional_Defiant_Disorder_ODD/advice/14037147-really-gross/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I she actually doing this on purpose or is she having a problem with bowel control?  Is she on medications for the ODD?  If so it might be a side effect--even if it's not listed.  Also Stress could be another cause.  I would definitely seek medical advice to make sure its not something medically rel...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2012 09:17:28 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by catholbrook</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Oppositional_Defiant_Disorder_ODD/advice/14037147-really-gross/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I have taken her to a doctor.. nothing wrong.  I've taken her to get <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Psychotherapy" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Psychotherapy')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Counseling">counseling</a> on it.  She see's a therapist once a month.  She's the one that told me to put her in <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Diapers" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Diapers')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Diapers">diapers</a>.  She seems to like <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Diapers" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Diapers')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Diapers">diapers</a>.   
 Reasons why I can prove she is doing it on purpose: 
 The other day she asked for her phone bac...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2012 09:31:58 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by vadasquared</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Oppositional_Defiant_Disorder_ODD/advice/14037147-really-gross/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[awww Cat! I am so sorry, that really stinks! (excuse the pun, I figure you might could use a chuckle)  
  
 I used to baby sit my nephews, and they were big guys, 10, 9, and 8... the first time they pooped themselves I was all coddly and cleaned them up while trying not to vomit.. The next day, they d...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2012 20:16:08 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Sowle</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Oppositional_Defiant_Disorder_ODD/advice/14037147-really-gross/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I was just thinking tough love maybe is the key for Mel--make her either wash up herself or make her sit in it for hours--it will get to the point where she won't be able to stand it any longer.  You have counselor's to back you up so you can't be accused of Child abuse or neglect--I'm thinking toug...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Mon, 09 Apr 2012 15:12:40 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by catholbrook</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Oppositional_Defiant_Disorder_ODD/advice/14037147-really-gross/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[trust me.. I understand all about keeping that guard up even when they are doing good LOL 
 Well, I put the <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Diapers" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Diapers')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Diapers">diapers</a> on her and now she will pee in them.. I really have encouraged her lazy side.  GEEZ.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Mon, 09 Apr 2012 16:29:37 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Sowle</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Oppositional_Defiant_Disorder_ODD/advice/14037147-really-gross/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Is she doing this to be rebellious?  What do the counselors say about all this?]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 12:17:03 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Sowle</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Oppositional_Defiant_Disorder_ODD/advice/14037147-really-gross/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[OOPs my post didn't work correctly--- 
  
 If she enjoys being in diapers--I would not put her in them unless you get some that are too small or uncomfortable for her because as you said NOW you have encouraged her lazy side. She needs to know what she is doing is wrong--ON SO MANY LEVELS--if she enjo...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 12:23:05 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Sowle</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Oppositional_Defiant_Disorder_ODD/advice/14037147-really-gross/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Scratch that website--I wont help you. 
   
 have you ever heard of these terms before? 
  
 encopresis and enuresis]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 12:26:49 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Sowle</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Oppositional_Defiant_Disorder_ODD/advice/14037147-really-gross/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I found this and wanted to share it with you: 
  
 Encopresis occurs when children who are old enough to eliminate waste appropriately repeatedly defecate in inappropriate places such as inside clothing or on the floor. DSM criteria for encopresis state that the behavior must occur once a month for at...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 12:36:29 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Sowle</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Oppositional_Defiant_Disorder_ODD/advice/14037147-really-gross/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Sorry Cathholbrook I am having issues posting on here--this is the recommendations on techniques to be used for therapy: 
  
 Toileting skills may be retaught (or taught for the first time) if appropriate. <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Biofeedback" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Biofeedback')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Biofeedback">Biofeedback</a> training, designed to help children strengthen their anal contractor muscles and pra...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 12:47:26 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Daisymum</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[I wonder is this her way of controlling things?  I notice with my daughter, it is a control issue.   I always suffer a consequence for giving her a consequence because she gives it right back in a subtle wasy.  For example, this am I told her that I will not take her out 1:1 dinner because her behav...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 20 Apr 2012 11:32:01 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by catholbrook</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Sowle: 
 I talked to her therapist about the voluntary endocrosis and she agrees thats probably what it is.  She says she has also asked other colleagues about things that I could do different.  Unfortunately, they didn't come up with anything *sigh* But, right now, shes not doing it.  Her father was...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 20 Apr 2012 13:03:32 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Sowle</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[I have to say that the Therapist seems to be giving up on Mel and that concerns me.  Apparently the behavior modifications that being done are not all that effective.  I am glad to hear she is doing better since Dad got home, do you think theres a connection there?  Why is she better when he is home...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 20 Apr 2012 14:38:51 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by catholbrook</title>
			<link>http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Oppositional_Defiant_Disorder_ODD/advice/14037147-really-gross/lastpage</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I have done some <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Research" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Research')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Research">research</a> on my own, but I have to admit.  It mainly says that you must do <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Behavior_Management" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Behavior_Management')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Behavior Modification">behavior modification</a> and / or find the actual problem for causing the child to do this.  However, it doesn't go into much detail on the different types of <a href="http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Behavior_Management" onclick="treatmentHotLink('http://www.dailystrength.org/treatments/Behavior_Management')" class="treatmentlink" title="Learn more about Behavior Modification">behavior modification</a>.  And the underlying problem co...]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 20 Apr 2012 14:57:56 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Comment by Sowle</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[sorry I spelled it wrong--encopresis.]]></description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 20 Apr 2012 14:58:48 +0100</pubDate>
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