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If I had 5 minutes in Heaven
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What would we say if we had five minutes in heaven with our loved one? Five minutes to see that they are okay and waiting for us to join them some day. Five minutes to say the things that weigh so heavily on our hearts. Five minutes to say all those things now that we wish we had the chance to say. I am writing this thread so anyone that would be helped by doing this can be. I am also starting this thread because I know that we all would give anything to have time with our lived one even though five minutes would not be long enough.
____________________________________________ First I would give my husband the biggest bear hug in the world and reluctantly let go to say this.... Oh my God, Honey, I didn't know how hard this would be! I miss you every second of every moment of every day and sometimes I wish I could come join you now. Then I remember all of our people that we both love and how you would do anything to be with all of us and I cannot give up what time I have left with them. I love you so so much and I know that you will always be in my heart like you said. I feel you all the time pushing me to live fully just like you always encouraged me to have fun. Is that you talking to me, or just me thinking of what you would say? Do you hear me when I talk to you? Are you watching over all of us? I am so sorry that you went through the hell that you did with the cancer and the treatments. I hope we were able to keep you comfortable and that you didn't suffer. Did I make the right choices for you? It was all so so hard! I am glad though that we all had the chance to be there with you. Babe, you are the love of my life and you will always be the love of my life as well as my heart and soul! You helped me to become whole and I will forever cherish all of the memories of the time that we shared. You would be so proud of the kids and grand kids! I think of you every moment that I am with them and think of how you would love each moment too. I miss your hugs and us cuddling the most! We didn't get enough time, but I wouldn't give up even one moment of the time that we shared. Please tell me about heaven.... (Then one more bear hug and I would tell him over and over how much I love him until my time was up). __________________________________________ Then I would come back and know that five minutes was not long enough. Posted on 09/29/09, 05:09 am |
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If I had 5 minutes in heaven I would just want him to hold me. We made it a piont to tell each other everyday how much we loved one another. So there would be no need for all the questions. Just to have him near again would be the most wonderful gift. I truly beleive he already knows how sad and lonely I am without him. And I wouldn't want our time together to wasted on tears. 
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