Widows & Widowers Support Group

I would concentrate on friendships and see what develops naturally. I was married 40 years and can't imagine a romantic relationship. Initially I was afraid to even talk to a man, but casual friendships might be nice as long as they aren't threatening to you. Sharon

Aseret--

Your post made me chuckle, for the same things have happened to me. And you are absolutely correct with all your chosen words. Actually, you took them right out of my mouth. The comments I have always received have never come from my female friends. Just the men. Nothing against the guys (apologies), but women naturally think differently than the fellas. It is just the difference between the sexes.

I am more comfortable being in the company of my girlfriends and family members. I don't even entertain the idea, nor do I wish to think about it. Whatever my future brings, it will be what I chose for myself. And no one needs to be concerned that I am a lonely old spinster.

God knows how I feel, and that's all that matters.

I really think Donnie hit the nail on the head. I don't think I'd be able to talk about anything else right now but my wife. And because she was so perfect in my eyes, it will be really hard to accept someone else and not compare. I personally, don't see myself being able to look for someone else for a very long time.
I guess when the time comes we'll all know it.