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This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life aft...
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Sunday November 29, 2009
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Well, today makes it three weeks since I lost the love of my life. I'm nhot coping very well, as all this time (approximately 12:45 P.M.) he was still here with me. I mean, he was alive and everything; it's not like I knew he was going to die. He didn't indicate that anything was wrong. He was pronounced dead at around 03:23 P.M., but the death certificate said...
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I HESITATE TO EVEN WRITE ABOUT THE DAYS EVENTS , I HAVE BEGUN TO CRINGE WHEN PEOPLE SAY WHEN IS IT GOING TO SLOW DOWN FOR YOU BRENDA, OR WHEN IS GOOD THINGS GOING TO START HAPPENING IN YOUR FAMILY WELL I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW THAT TOO BUT I AM JUST TRYING TO HANG ON TILL IT DOES, I TOOK MOTHER TO THE HOSPITAL SHE HAD A LARGE HEMATOMA ON THE SIDE OF HER LEG THAT WAS NOT HEALING AND THEY DID DAY SURGE...2 Recommendations16 Comments
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tried to write earlier and it won't let me. keeping it short. 2 choco chip cookies 150 i was baking earlier, i'm not that great at baking cookies, they are never soft enough for me and i generally burn the first batch. lol bowl of cabbage 20. 2 chicken thighs with red sauce 200, 3 pretzel nuggets 70, 1 fudge stick 50, coffee with cream 20, 1 orang...1 Recommendation17 Comments
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Friends, I seem to be bouncing around today.
Basically at this point I'm not a basket case. That's a plus. But, one minute , I'm mellow the next I'm crying like a baby...
I can handle that. I just don't want to let the sorrow take over. I know that would be so easy. I refuse to let myself get to that point, EVER AGAIN. I feel like if I do I just may lose it completely.
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As most of you know my husband, Don, died on 6/15/07 and I've been working very hard on healing and finding a purpose to live without him. On 2//16/09 my mom died in a nursing home, but I was at her side with my son. I manage my feelings very well after losing her as I believe I grieved for her years ago when she became so demented she no longer knew me or where...2 Recommendations14 Comments
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IT HAS RAINED ALL WEEK AND LIVING IN WEST TEXAS THAT IS NOT NORMAL. USUALLY IF IT IS RAINING WE ARE WATCHING THE SKIES FOR WALL CLOUDS POSSIBLE TORNADOS OR AT LEAST HAIL STORMS SO TO JUST HAVE NICE STEADY RAIN STORMS IS A BLESSING. I KNOW MWE NEED THE RAIN BADLY, A LOT OF MY FAMILY ARE FARMERS AND MANY OF THEM PLANT PEANUTS SO THE RAIN IS GOOD , BUT I KNOW MY DEPRESSION AND GREY MOOD IS BECAUSE T...1 Recommendation14 Comments
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finally found baby girl by the bushes off the sidewalk and the main road around the corner from our house. what's really sick is i think i saw her a couple of days ago when i was first looking and thought she was a baby raccoon so i went the other way. the same thing as with rocket back in january...i couldn't SEE her because she is brown and seemed to blend into the leaves.&n...1 Recommendation14 Comments
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FLUFF
1992-2009
Last night I had to make the difficult decison to have my Fluff put to sleep.
I could tell just by the l...3 Recommendations11 Comments -
It’s a year on Sunday since Pam died. This year seems to have been a never-ending journey from happiness to misery; a joyless monotony of emptiness and lethargy. I just miss her so, so much.
Softly the leaves of memory fall
Gently we gather and treasure them all
Unseen, unheard you are always near
So missed, so loved, so very dear1 Recommendation13 Comments
