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Monday November 30, 2009
Rambling Stories
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Struggling with my unwanted visitor, not winning ......but don't count me out yet !
Thursday, April 10, 2008
by: msgbruin45
On January 1st , 2008 , I was forced to open my door and let in a horrible visitor , with a load of suitcases .
The suitcases were filled with pain , despair ,tears and loneliness and the visitor brought enough to last a lifetime .
The visitor was very rude and moved my suitcases which contained Happiness, Laughter and Joy to the back of ...
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at 9:00 a.m. i am me and ready to take on anything. by 10:30 a.m. my bp is rising and i can feel it and i take a pill and then it takes until afternoon to feel normal enough to do anything significant. even feeding the animals is done in slow gear! ugh. its very frustrating and i have no solution. hopefully when thin again i won't need bp. however...1 Recommendation10 Comments
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Well Here it is, a month since my last journal entry. Time does fly. I am having a hard time this week and I finally got a revelation why today. I was busy at work and feeling sad. I didn't know why just a very heavy heart. Nothing at work was out of the ordinary just my spirit was really low. I took a break and went to the rest room. There I could have some privacy because tears were welling...11 Recommendations12 Comments
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The first year I put one foot in front of the other, kept busy, and got through life one day at a time. After the shock and the grief and the haze cleared all thoughts and plans for the future were put on hold. I immersed myself in the business affairs that come with the loss of a loved one and allowed myself no time to think.
It was around the one year anniversary of Phil’s death that I ha...3 Recommendations8 Comments -
For all those who think I'm so brave, strong, capable, and/or courageous, etc. Saying here & now, and once again - "T'aint so." Oh, I can be - and I have been - and I hope to be so again, but it doesn't come easy or natural to me. Being courageous is something I am learn'n - and I'm a slow learner...
I am a WIP (work in progress) - and sometimes ...1 Recommendation14 Comments -
27 days old, memories of corruption, b and t have a timeshare to sell off.
Monday, December 29, 2008 |
by: 79pounds
27 DAYS OLD. willi ate softened dry food through a syringe last night. a major accomplishment. lol. this morning he literally, SUCKED DOWN 14 mls of food like it was nothing, just a big gulp. and he is sprouting the plastic-like teeth and poohing mostly on his own, though he still needs help to pee. it is "just born" that i have him trying now an...2 Recommendations18 Comments -
Phil will be coming in Friday night at 11:30... I am beginning to feel like a school girl with her first crush. (All giddy inside) I'm too daggone old for those feelings but they do feel good!!
Our relationship has grown in several different stages...We were only attracted by the photos on the web, to liking each others voice on the phone, to having so many little things in common.
And now lo...1 Recommendation11 Comments -
I am calling this rambling, yet I strive for it to be encouraging. I am processing a new knowledge that recently came to me, with the help of a DS friend. He knows who he is and how much I appreciate his wisdom.
We were talkiing about back when my life fell apart with the loss of someone dear. We were talking about loving yourself. It opened a f...1 Recommendation10 Comments -
That you were here, in your recliner, and that we were watching a movie. I wish that you were standing in the kitchen with your arms around me, my head on your chest and that we were dancing to the music I'm playing now. I wish that you would pop your head in here and say "ARE YOU GOING TO BE ON THAT COMPUTER ALL NIGHT!?" I wish that you would walk over, put your a...3 Recommendations9 Comments
