Vasectomy Support Group

My wife is the same. She gets a lot more out of sex and enjoys it more when she knows that there is the possibility of her getting pregnant. Although I have not had a vasectomy yet,. So for now she is on birth control pills. When she is on birth control she doesn't enjoy sex as much. It's just something in her that knows she can't get pregnant from us having sex and it makes it so that it isn't as gratifying for her. This is the actually the reason I haven't gotten a vasectomy yet. Because I think that right now she feels that she can go off birth control and we could have another baby. But if I were to get a vasectomy and make it so that we can NEVER have another one. I'm thinking that would totally destroy our sex life. So. I may not end up getting one at all. Your wife is not alone. I think secretly women get off on the possibility of having another baby. Im not sure there is a solution for either of us.

I think most marriages go through this from time to time. After my vasectomy my wife was also 6 months pregnant so sex for me was out of the question. But I can tell you that I have been through periods like you describe and she is just not in the mood,then time will pass and she does get in the mood and everything is okay.

As far as spicing things up,you can do alot of things like take her out to a romantic dinner or if you can cook try cooking her a nice dinner with candles and wine,just do things different every once in a while that will show her that you still care about her.

female point here..or love making has stayed the same..I still desire him as much as ever , but as I get older it would be nice to slow down a bit.