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I sometimes feel like a boy, but other times i feel like a girl. what am i? i like to dress like a boy, and i act like a boy, but i dont know if i was supposed to be BORN a boy. are there any ftm people out there that can help me figure things out? PLEASE????????
Posted on 11/05/09, 12:11 pm
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Reply #1 - 11/05/09  3:04pm
" Hi lonelyles, between the two gender rolls, your true gender identity wants to come out and explore. When you dress up in boys clothing, have you considered going out in public (if you haven't done so yet)
to socialize around the guys? "
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Reply #2 - 11/05/09  4:08pm
" omg! i'm SO scared to be around guys! i just dont know what to do if i were around guys. it's scary for me, since i was molested and raped by 2 guys. i'm scared that all guys (except me) are going to do that. and i want to meet more mtf, but it seems that all trans on here are mtf. "
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Reply #3 - 11/05/09  8:56pm
" I’m sorry that had happen to you. There are additional support groups on ds to help you in those areas which are not listed in your profile. I know that it is not good to live your life in fear because of what some creeps did to you. If you need a friend to talk to, I’m here *hugs*
Rhonda "
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Reply #4 - 11/09/09  8:50am
" ok, things are getting worse. i shaved part of my head, so i could look more like a boy. then i had to go to a dress up thing and people STILL called me a girl! i was so mad/happy. i dont know if i want to be a girl. part of me is aching to be a boy, but the other is just screaming GIRL!!!!

WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO?!?!?!?!?!!? "
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Reply #5 - 11/09/09  10:34am
" correction: i'm GOING to shave my head to look more like a boy. "
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Reply #6 - 11/09/09  4:34pm
" In order to find out what your true gender identity is, there needs to be an a constant attempt at transition of the opposite gender, but if neither side doesn't want to give in to determine what your true gender identity is, then a gender specialist might be able to help you find out your true gender is. Good luck in your journey *hugs*

Rhonda "
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Reply #7 - 11/14/09  10:52pm
" Hi lonely. Did you shave your head yet? That is something I wish I could do...but I work as a manager in a business environment and meet with clients, so it wouldn't exactly go over. I really want that boot camp buzz. I think for me it wouldn't matter so much if others knew I was a woman or not, but what would matter to me most is how I feel about myself inside. But I would be lying if i said what others think and how they treat me doesn't matter at all...I (like you maybe) would love someday to get into the men's room without any second glances. Anyway...I guess what I am trying to say is I totally understand your confused feelings, as i am there too! Let me know how the shave goes!!! "

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