What is Transgender

Transgender identity includes many overlapping sub-categories. These include transsexual; cross-dresser; transvestite; consciously androgynous people; genderqueer; people who live ...

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It was during the afternoon time, and I was hanging out with my close friend Hell en. We just finished eating lunch as I walked her half way home, although I would had walked her all the way home, but I needed to make a quick stop at a nearby the food store. Hell en agreed that it was okay for us to go our separate ways until we meet again. And so we said our goodbyes, while walking in opposite directions now. It is now night time and once again we finished eating dinner, and she invited me to go food shopping with her. On the way to the store, Hell en questioned me about why I didn't invite her to come in at the food store during the afternoon time? I could tell that she was getting herself ready to get her emotions worked up over nothing, in which I remembered her agreeing that we go our separate ways? Anyway she went into a rage, while screaming at me in the public, (in her mind
she was convince that I intentionally didn't want her around me) I tried to defuse the argument, but it didn't work, not to mention that she was embarrassing me in the public. I felt my depression coming on, and flash backs of my childhood from the bullying and teasing about my gender identity. Anyway, emotionally I was a mess, as other friends who eased dropped on the argument instructed us to go home separately, and we did. Recently I had brought her a necklace out of friendship, and so I was wondering should I call Hell en on her home phone to ask for it back, and cut off my friendship with her?
Posted on 11/02/09, 09:11 pm
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Reply #1 - 11/03/09  8:53am
" if it were me, I would leave it alone. When you gave her the necklace in friendship, I presume it was with no strings attached, it was hers to do with as she wanted, in what ever way pleased her. If you take it back, you may irrevocablly burn that bridge of freindship behind you. She may talk about you in a negative fashion for doing it. I don't know if you are going to care to be around her in the same way if she is that emotionally unstable, but you don't want to make an enemy out of her either. It ain't worth it, let her have the necklace, stay cool

hopes for the best
Symantha "

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