What is Transgender
Transgender identity includes many overlapping sub-categories. These include transsexual; cross-dresser; transvestite; consciously androgynous people; genderqueer; people who live ...
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One week I feel like a boy, and the other I feel like a dyke. I don't get it. The time that I feel like a boy I feel so fucking hopeless and I need to change, but then I'll feel fine with myself. I don't know what to do.
Posted on 09/23/08, 02:09 am |
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Could you be bigender?
Or just one that is ashamed cause of confusion of this messed up society.. You just need to be yourself.. If being you is a male then thats you.. Its not what others think its what you want.. NOthing to be ashamed of being a dyke or a male.. Live life to the fullest and enjoy it..We only get a little bit of time here.. Noyone should stand in your way.. 
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i checked your profile and it says you are 15. that means to me you have a LOT of time to figure out where you fit in terms of gender or sexual orientation. Dont rush. when you are sure, you will be sure. Untill then enjoy being yourself, and the journey of figuring out just who that is.
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i feel the same. i mean, i have a girl body but i don't feel like it's me.
i don't know if i'd feel like it was me if i changed it either, though. i don't like wearing girl clothes. i'm physically attracted to both, but mentally attracted to girls. i don't fit. and it's frustrating.
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Things can be confusing at times for me as well. I have know doubts that I should have been born female though. I am naturally attracted to males but choose to ignore and live a lesbian lifestyle. Women can be just as aggressive as a male and some even act the same. I recently made a trip out of town and I heard a female tell her friend at the mall that she'd take me home with her. It made me giggle and still does on one hand it's like she was talking like throwing me over her shoulder cave man style and that sort of made me feel like I was just a piece of meat to her. Then it the other hand it made me giggle that it was a female talking like this. I am so confused about that right now.
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I actually predate the internet (but NOT electricity). You may not know yet but you have the time (you're 15) to find out. That's the journey we are on. Savour the frustration, it is the fuel for your exploration of self.
I denied being transgendered for my WHOLE life, because I was unwilling (afraid?) to explore that part of me or deal with my confusion. Boy, am I sorry now, at 56 I finally transitioned and live now as a female. I've never been happier and more content. Explore. Just keep doing what you're doing. The answer (I feel like I should say 'little cricket' here and then hit a gong) will be apparent in the fullness of time.
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From what I've read on Wiki and other websites. Transgender is when your physical gender is different from my emotional gender. I maybe wrong. But thats what it said. Anyways, in my opinion, you should just be happy for who you are. It shouldn't matter if your female, male, or neither. I've been out as transgender for a while now. Trust me, I know what your going through. I felt the smae way for a LONG time.
PS: sorry if I wasn't much help. But that's the only help I can give.
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