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i have sex with guy "friends" to feel like i am in control of my body.
i was raped a lil more than a year ago. (aug 25 2008)
i feel like i have too.
i wanted to do it bc i want it my choice.
its my body, i can do what i want with it
they cant touch me, its my choice...
i know, its sick...
i feel disgusted
how do i stop myself??
i dont even want to have sex, it doesnt feel good, and its not fun.
why do i keep going back?
Posted on 11/07/09, 06:11 pm
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Reply #1 - 11/08/09  7:43pm
" It could be because you want to be loved my someone. I know the only i do a lot of i do is because i want someone to love me and i want to feel like there is always someone there for me. By having sex all the time it could be because you want some one there for you and because it makes you feel like you are special and loved. "
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Reply #2 - 11/08/09  11:09pm
" thats exactly the reason. "
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Reply #3 - 11/08/09  11:09pm
" how do i stop myself???? "
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Reply #4 - 11/11/09  4:33pm
" Its never easy to stop. Abuse is about control. And now your trying to get that control back. You feel like getting that control back shows that your stronger than those. The only way you can stop is by finding the strength inside yourself to say no. To not give into that temptation and to be strong. Its not easy and its hard and you made need counselling or therapy to help you but its completely worthwhile. Just find the strength within you. "
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Reply #5 - 11/12/09  10:16pm
" Marie and Soph are both very correct in what they say but id like to add that another maybe subconcious reason for you doing it is because you feel that by repeating the act that took away your control you can gain it back. stopping wont be easy and it will require a strength you dont think you have but it can be done just think about why you want to stop. use that as motivation. when you feel tempted think "why should i it wont feel good and it wont last but for a moment. hell if it does anything it might make things worst". :) "
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Reply #6 - 11/13/09  12:35am
" Thankssss. "

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