Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) Support Group

I am so sorry. I know your pain all to well. If you need to take some time and lay in bed then that is what you should do. I have been told so many times just to do what I felt was right. I hope you find a little peace and take care of yourself. Love and Hugs to you hon.

Hon, I am so sorry!! If you want to lay in bed all day and cry and mope around the house, then you should. You'll know when you're ready to do more than that. All of us here have been where you are at some point. We all understand! To this day, 14 months after losing my Siena, I still feel like it's so not real. I still feel like being alone alot of the time. If you can stay home from work, please do. I stayed out of work for 6 weeks and then went back on an "I'll stay until I need to leave" basis. You have every right to feel the way you do. An understanding hug to you!

I agree...some days getting out of bed is all that I can do...and it is a major accomplishment. Some days, i can't stand the thought of looking or talking to anyone...and so I don't. Take care of YOU

honey if you get out of bed and take a shower than that's great, if you get up and eat, than that's great, if you lay in bed and cry then that's great, you have to take care of you. Cry when you want to. yell when you want to. it's normal, it's our normal. you have to let yourself feel what you feel, otherwise you'll explode

I agree with what everyone else has said. Just know what we are all on that roller coaster with you and we are here to help each other work through those low twists and turns.