Stroke Support Group

My husband has had many strokes plus he is diabetic. The problem is he gets upset all of the time. I do understand he is very upset because of his health issues. But it is not my fault. I have been so patient with him. He would never b as patient with me. He has problems with his speech, walking and memory. He wants to pay bills all of the time. He is afraid he didn't pay r bills. I get the check book out 2 show him we already paid them. Then the next day he starts yelling all ovet again about paying the bills. He moves stuff anf blames it on me or r daughter. Sometimes I will take the blame but then he yells at me more. Telling me to stop doing it. I will say I am sorry. Then he will say don't b sorry just don't do it again. Well this happens all of the time. He said I cashed 1 of his checks because he couldn't find it. I looked 4 it, called the bank and then the company who sent it 2 him. Turns out they haven't even sent it yet. But he still didn't believe it. I could go on and on. Then I left the dish soap bottle cap open, I moved the rug on the porch 2" over, I can do nothing right. This is day in and day out. I can take it 4 so long that it gets very old. I can tell my his face he doesn't understand as well as he used 2. But that isn't my fault either. I take care of him with the things he can't do. Still he is verbally abusive toward r daugher and I. Then next he will ask y I don't want 2 spend time with him. Well because all he does is bitch, bitch and bitch. He makes a huge deal out od nothing but in the end it is all my fault. ALWAYS.....HOW 2 KEEP FROM ALWAYS FIGHTING......................
Posted on 10/29/09, 12:10 am