What is Stillbirth

A stillbirth occurs when a fetus which has died in the uterus or during labour or delivery exits a woman's body. The term is often used in distinction to live birth or miscarr...

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hi all i am new i was told about this site by a friend on facebook. I lost my first baby in 2005 he was born at 22 weeks he was born alive but the doctors refused to do n e thing and he died 15 mins later it was the hardest day of my life. i called him cody-jake as the name cody had been in my head since the day i found out i was expecting him. i love and miss him so much he now has two younger sisters. xxxxx
Posted on 11/09/09, 10:11 am
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Reply #1 - 11/09/09  11:03am
" I am sorry for your loss of Cody. I lost my daughter at 22 weeks in June and reading that you were able to have 2 more children after your loss gave me a little more hope so thank you for that. I'm glad you found this group, the people here are great. "
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Reply #2 - 11/09/09  11:18am
" I also lost my son at 22 weeks. We are in the process of trying again, and hopefully we'll have a happy outcome like you have...healthy babies. I'm so sorry you lost Cody, but thank you for sharing with us your hope too. "
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Reply #3 - 11/09/09  11:32am
" Hi I lost my son at 20 weeks. I am sorry for your loss, but seeing you have two more children after him brings my some hope. "
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Reply #4 - 11/09/09  1:46pm
" why wouldnt they try and save him?him so sorry sweety "
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Reply #5 - 11/09/09  2:10pm
" ty for ur comments ladys and am sorry to hear about ur losses. they wouldnt try and save him because the goverment legislation states that if a baby is born befor 25 weeks they DONT have to do any thing to save the baby because of the chances of it not surviving x "
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Reply #6 - 11/09/09  5:31pm
" I'm so sorry for your loss. It has to be so hard to watch your baby pass. My baby girl Faith was born still at 35 1/2 weeks on 9-3-08. I couldn't imagine her arriving alive and them not do anything. We have three living children before her and have since had her little sister- Hope 7-8-09. I hope you find the comfort that I have found from these special friends. Hugs,Cynthia "
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Reply #7 - 11/09/09  5:48pm
" I'm so very sorry for the loss of your son Cody I couldn't imagine going through him being born alive and them just standing there that is very tragic, we lost our baby girl Tiffany recently she was born sleeping on 9.4.09, they did try working on her for 22 minutes but she never took a breath. Again I'm very sorry and glad that your friend from facebook pointed you to this website I've only been a member for a few short days but already have found so much support and hope for the future, we have two girls already and hopefully we will try again. But just know we are all here to support you and get you through the sad times.

::hugs:: "
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Reply #8 - 11/09/09  6:03pm
" I am sorry for your loss - I lost my daughter at 26 weeks and four days. This site is wonderful and very helpful but I am sorry you needed to find it "
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Reply #9 - 11/10/09  8:56pm
" I am glad you found this site. My baby was stillborn 32 years ago and I am still grieving, so I can understand that you still feel Cody's loss after 4 years. I hope you will find peace. "
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Reply #10 - 11/13/09  9:34am
" Thank you every one for your kind words and i am sorry about the loss of your babys its some thing no one should ever had to go through xxxx "

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