What is Stillbirth
A stillbirth occurs when a fetus which has died in the uterus or during labour or delivery exits a woman's body. The term is often used in distinction to live birth or miscarr...
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ever scence my baby Kaitlynn passed away ive been telling jeremy that if this sertian couple at my church get pregnant i wount be able to come back to that church. its not that i dont want people to have a baby its just that this couple has always been in compatition with me and jeremy. they are just doing thos to make me and jeremy mad. they r extremly immature and cant even take care of them selves. yes they are the same age as me and jeremy were when we got pregnant but we are way more mature than most people our age. this couple is not. and i just feel like this is a slap in the face! i just dont know what to do! jeremy wants me to come back to church but i just dont think i can. i have to deal with pregnant teens all day at school and i just thot church was my shelter...... guess not now!!! i just dont know what to do!!!!
Posted on 11/07/09, 09:11 am |
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It is so hard to deal with other people's pregnancies, but worse to deal with people we don't get on with. If this couple get pregnant you will probably wonder why they deserve this and you don't. All normal reactions, but hard to deal with.
About church - could you focus on church being about you and God, a time and place set aside for you to be with God? You could try to avoid this couple, sounds as if you are not really friends with them anyway. Spend time with people who love and support you - I hope there are some of them at your church. Could you talk to your pastor about your feelings? I find the Psalms very helpful when I feel lost and alone. If you want to message me your email I could send you a list of verses which express how God understands and is with us through the pain of grief and (in my case) depression. God is your shelter. He is with you whether you go to that church, change churches or don't go at all. Deuteronomy 33:27 "The eternal God is your refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms." 
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