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Snoop, all you stepmothers-snoop!!
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I am cleaning my attic-came across a box I didn't recognize. I had a nice surprise when I opened it-my SD in some very sexually graphic pictures with one of her men. I'm not even going to show these to my H-I don't think he could handle it. Off to the incinerator.

Steps-if you think your stepchild is up to something, you're probably right. Snoop, search, dig-do whatever you need to do. If (s)he is under YOUR roof, there is NO right to privacy as far as I am concerned. Find out what's going on. You have a right to know what is going on in your home.
Posted on 11/04/09, 09:11 am
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Reply #1 - 11/04/09  4:33pm
" Your stepdaughter is an adult right?

I don't know, I might be tempted to keep a couple just to use as leverage in the future should she accuse you of something wrong.
Y'know Blackmail ammo?

As for snooping. I fully intend on continuing snooping on SS who is only 10 but has a teenager attitude. "
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Reply #2 - 11/04/09  11:43pm
" I almost kept them but just didn't have the heart. But, the diary was pretty graphic-that I kept-dates, places, activities. Plus, I have a stack of nasty little emails she sent me proving her pregnancy and abortion that she's hid from her dad. The pictures were alot of T&A, no actual acts. All they did was prove what I already knew. "
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Reply #3 - 11/05/09  9:18pm
" I know what you mean. Actually someone I work with (who was neighbors with my SD) told me she was smoking cigarettes...she was only 10 yo at the time...
Then someone else told me she was "fast" and liked to sit on grown men and boys laps...she was only 12 yo. I only shared this incident with my DH. Ofcourse it back fired on me and he snapped "She's not fast, she's not like that. You don't even know"
Do you think I'll be telling him anything else she does?
NOT! "

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