Step Families Support Group

Honestly what is the use of all the drama?! Can't that BM's just give it a rest and act like an adult human being? Childish shananigans are getting old! My SS's BM pulled a childish act yesterday. We did not know that she was going to be off last night until she text me and told me that she was going to pick him up because she was off. I said K then we will see you at 7pm then. And that was that. We would have dropped him off. She gets to my house at 6:30p to get him (which is not 7p) gets upset because I made her wait cuz my DH was not home yet and makes the comment that she can't be doing this night driving stuff cuz she almost hit 3 deer on her way out! HELLO!!! for one do the speed limit of 55mph not 70mph and stop texting and watch the road! She wants to change the time that he returns home but not the pickup time so that DH can still get his equivalant time in. My DH told her then She can drop off on Friday and he will drop off on Sunday so that she wouldn't have to drive at night and then all of a sudden 7pm is to late because that only gives him an hour and a half to get ready for bed (cuz heaven knows an 11 year old needs to be in bed at 8:30pm lol). She tried saying that she talked to her lawyer about it and her lawyer agreed with 7p being too late. Well if that's the case why didn't she call my DH on Friday during the day and discuss this with him so that he could have picked his son up earlier? Are you really telling me that a lawyer is going to be working on a Sunday?? Ha whatever!! In a way I am hoping to receive a letter in the mail for my DH from her lawyer so that we can take it to a lawyer and hopefully get it turned into either a longer visitation (cause SS wants to spend half the week with us and the other with her) or we just get awarded custody because of all the crap she pulls and the abuse her hubby does to my SS. Once again it's our once a year baby mamma drama!
Posted on 11/02/09, 03:11 pm