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I WANT A DIVORCE!!!!
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My story is long and complicatied, but in short, what my husband should have done was to put this ring on his daughter's finger! Why? Because that simple b*tch of his has blatenlly refused to get a life of her own in hopes of keeping daddy all to herself! Well, bravo!!! The award for best stupid, simple and manipulitive actress goes to low life skank!!!!! Whose whorish ways and jealousness over seeing her father finally happy, have ended a very beautiful relationship between two people who once cared very deeply for each other. How? By pulling the wool over her fathers eyes and maninpulating him to the point that he thinks she's the only one who cares for him and that she is the only one who will forever be there for him. Ha! Since our separation earlier this year, she has stopped all of her calling (she used to call him, not me, two or three times a day when we were living together). Actually, she will call him to see if he has heard from me so that she can keep manipulating me. She has stopped going over to his house to visit and has stopped cooking for him. She was only doing these things to show him how wonderful of a person she is and how leaving her to be with his wife (me) would be foolish. Well now he sees she was just being a b*tch. I don't care if he stays alone and lonely the rest of his life short miserable life! He should have treated me better when he had the chance. And now just last month he sent me a birthday card for my birthday basically saying how sorry he was. Ha! I spat at that card! I can forgive him, but that doesn't mean I have to take him back. And I'm done with that! The way I see it, it's either me or her.
Posted on 10/10/09, 01:10 am |
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Good for you for getting out of an impossible situation. 
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My SD is the same way but I managed to tough it out-sometimes I'm sorry that I did, sometimes I'm glad I did.
it takes a slap in the face to wake people up. too bad it came too late for the 2 of you. hope you find the happiness you deserve.
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Sometimes people don't know what they have until its gone. Some men are worth loving..... but sometimes it is not worth the man. Find someone who appreciates you for who you are. Marriage is hard enough.... you shouldn't be made to feel in compitetion with your SD. Because she is definitely not worth it. Best of luck to you...
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Thanks for the replies. I just don't understand why he put this ring on my finger when all he wants to do is be with his daughter? Nothing I have ever said mattered when it came to her. And let me tell you, I was a damn good wife! I'm not just shuckking corn neither!!! I was better to him than he deserve to have me be! I can't wait to get out of this and move on. I don't think I will get married again. I don't want to have to put up with this bullsh*t any more. Yep, I think I will stay single!
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Its unfortunate that he choose his daughter over his wife. Sometimes, I don't believe men understand the balance between being a father and husband. Evidently your DH didn't. I would love to pray that he comes to his senses and things improve for the two of you. But sounds like you have emotionally and physically checked out of your marriage. I am hoping that you are blessed in the future and your future relationships are a blessing to you instead of another painful experience. (Though they help us to grow and learn- now you know, you don't want to date a man with kids again!)
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He sent you a card and said he was sorry. I can only imagine those were hard words for him to write. Would you consider going to counseling with him, setting down some ground rules (i.e. #1 I am your WIFE, I am priority number ONE! Your daughter does not come between us EVER!)
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Thanks queenae for that advice. I don't want to ever date another man with kids, ever again! And to reply to your post, Melin2, he did send me a card, but he didn't say he was sorry, not in so many words. I just took it as he was feeling the guilt and shame of it all. What he has put me and our marriage through because of his decision to stay with his daughter. As far as counseling and me telling him that I'm priority #1: been there, done that! He wasn't listening then and he sure ain't gonna listen now. I don't even want him too. I want him and his simple daughter out of my life! I can't take it anymore.
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Then let's move on, girlfriend!! You need to concentrate on taking care of yourself. We're here for you.
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Good luck moving on. I think most of us on this site with the toxic SD would agree the dads was at least 1/2 of the problem, and you can't fix grown adults. You were smart to call it quits.
There are so many wonderful giving single women out there!!! I just wish some of the dads out there (and I know they're not all like this) with troubled kids would just realize if they stepped up and really parented their kids, all their efforts would come back to them tenfold. Their kids would be healthier and they'd find a good woman like you to grow old with. Hang in there.
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AMEN!!!!!!
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