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hello, i had a baby 7mounth and now i am prgo again and so happy but i have no clue wat to do i lost my mother 2 weeks ago from cancer and i have no one else should i keep the baby should i get a abortoin or give it up for adoption i was going to keep the other one but my baby girl past from an unknown cause she wa 2 wks old and i miss her alot i also neeed help with names if i am going to keep her but not kayla melonie because that was her name and i just need some help.
Posted on 09/22/09, 06:09 pm
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Reply #1 - 09/22/09  10:44pm
" hunny i am so very sorry for your loss!! i cant imagine the pain you are going through.

a baby is a miracle! if you dont want the baby you can give it up for adoption, but once you hold that precious baby in your arms you may decide to never let it go! i dont know if you know God or not but i guarantee he is there for you! ask him to give you the strength you need for your sake as well as your babys. check out the web site www.babycenter.com. there is alot of great info on there. i think that your baby will give you strength to get through the loss of your mother and daughter. you can get assistance if you need it to help raise your child. im not telling you what to do i just hope that you dont have an abortion out of fear. there are so many women that want a child and cant conceive, if you choose not to keep the baby there are many women that would give him or her a happy home! my daughter is my world and is the reason i made it througth the seperation from my husband. dont rush into anything! congratulations, there is a living being growing inside of you, thats so exciting!! i also dont know if you are with the babys father or not but if you arent, hold your head up high! single mothers are the strongest women in the world.(im one) i will be praying for you and would love to talk more to you if you would like too!! "
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Reply #2 - 10/20/09  11:45am
" I am so sorry for your lose. I wouldn't give it up for adoption or abortion. This is a miracle that you are having another baby. Its not to replace the baby you lost. Its apart of you and you should think of keeping it and hoping its health and you can take care of it. I wouldn't worry about it just have it and love it like a loving and caring mom. "
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Reply #3 - 10/24/09  3:51am
" I'm sorry you're going though such thing. I cant say I've been there. but i know how it feels to think that you're alone in this.
I have a two year old...and i'm pregnant with another...with a different father. Things have not been going well at all. and I chose to adopt. It's probably the hardest thing I had to decide on, but I know the family personally so that makes things a lot smoother. and i can ease on the loss a bit.
If you decide on adoption its best to try and not be too attached. cuz once you hold that baby it's going to be that much harder.

names, should probably wait until you've made your decision and find out what gender your baby is.
i hope all goes well. tell us how things are going. and God bless "
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Reply #4 - 11/07/09  12:44pm
" I'm sorry to hear you are going thro all of this. You should find someone to talk to about all of your feelings about the baby you lost , your mother and the baby you are pregnent with now and any relationship problems you might be having with the father of the baby. It will help alot to talk to someone. This is alot for you to deal with all by your self. "

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