Sexually Transmitted Diseases - Male Support Group

Well, my wife (who were also just finding out she may have Paranoid personality disorder) has started telling me a lot of things she had been hiding from me for many years (part of the disorder aka trust issues). One of those things she recently told me was that she had 2 std's before we got together. One of them was Genital Herpes (cant remember the other) and I am seeing today (what i believe to be since i just found out a week ago) my first break out. I have one blister, not really sure what to do or how to feel about it either. She said it will go away, if i dont want the go to the doctor, and it doesnt really bother me or anything i just noticed it while i was in the shower.

I never thought of how i would feel if i had an std, and the sad thing is i never even got a choice of if i wanted to accept that part of her before i married her. although, now i realize what she suffers from I dont know if I should be upset or not. I love my wife, if i didn't i wouldnt stay putting up with the crap shes putting me through lately but venting here deffinatly made me feel a little better.

Thanks for reading.
Posted on 01/31/09, 10:01 pm