What is Sexually Transmitted Diseases - Male
Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) - also known as sexually transmissible diseases, sexually transmitted infections (STIs) or (infrequently) venereal diseases (VD) - are diseases...
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i just started dateing a women.
one of the things we talked about was pertection on our first time of sex together. she told me she didn't want any STD's. and i agreed i didn't want any either. well we have been haveing sex together for about 2 months now. and tonight she told me she was raped in college and she got herpyes. and she had a out break. my fucken mind went nuts. she acted like it was ok. i asked her why didn't you tell me this from the beginning. she said her ex husband didn't get it in the 16 years they were to gether that i wouldn't get it if we didn't do it around her out break. i am just so fucked off. i told her its a STD disease. and that now i fucken have it. what will i fucken do now. could some one tell me if i'm right. do i have it now after the first time we had sex. i'm sure i fucken do. i know i should get a test now and i am. but i am just at the end of my rope. how could someone do this to another. Posted on 10/05/09, 12:10 am |
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It sounds like she uses precautions but should have told you right away. Just because she has herpes do you think that she should stop having sex? But it should be a common decision between the two partners, she should have told you in order for you to make your choice. She's probably afraid too. She obviously knows how to handle it if her husband of 16 years didn't catch it. If you really like her then there shouldn't be a problem. It sounded like you used safe sex practices so I wouldn't worry so much about it until you know for sure. If your scared go get checked. Best of luck. 
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MSJAN...thank you for your reply.
you are right. i seen my doctor today and i'm ok. and do to her being treated and for her makeing the effert to treat herself that is why her ex husband is clean. as long as she is treating the out breaks with the meds and on the propper time. she can't spread it to me. i am upset with her for not telling me. but she is more upset then me. i do love this women so much. it hurt and scared me when she told me. i talked to her and we are both going to look into this more to make it as safe as we can to be togother. there is always going to be a chance i could get it. but we are going to do our best not to let that happen. so i thank you and to all that read this. i think things will be ok. sorry for my mouth on this but i was scared and upset. i hope that no one is offended by my words. thank you again.
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