Sexually Transmitted Diseases - Female Support Group

I know how u feel, i have an std to but if a man where 2 really love u it would nt matter, i didnt date 4 a 1 1/2 because of how i felt about my herpes, but i have some1 an i told him strait up b4 in the begining , i have found honesty is the best way 2 deal with it, if a man cant handle it then hes not the 1 , he can move on so u can find some1 real. i also carried my baby full term with herpes and didnt give it to the baby, u can keep it the gh asleep if u take care of your self i havent had a break out in a long time , certain foods set it off 2. any ? s just ask me i have done a lot of research on it. good luck!

I'm so glad to hear you gave birth and didn't give it to your child. I too have herpes and the man I am with currently I didn't tell initially. Then when things got more serious I did and he was furious with me for not telling him from the start. He really never wanted to talk to me again but somehow he found it in his heart to move on and it's been two years now. But as hard as it is and when figuring out when the best time is, it is still best to tell them from the start.