Sexually Transmitted Diseases - Female Support Group

That is a very deep and philosophical question. I am afraid I can't help when you don't say what the issue is.
All you can do sometimes is think about things and then let them go. You can't change everything, you can only change yourself and your reaction. I hope this helps somewhat.

it depends on what you are referring to...when it comes to health, the best you can do is learn as much as you can, you will never 100% understand how the body works or why...when I found out I had HSV and HPV I was like, where did this come from and tried to figure it out, well without telling every one I was with then I would really know and since these viruses don't alway present symptoms right away I really have NO way to know because everyone I have told denies it was them....sometimes you just have to look towards the future and not at the past and why it happened....you can know where you're going and why you want to go there, but sometimes you just have accept that you're answer may always be unresolved....I think in order to find happiness again you can't live that moment of torment and anxiety. You can try to understand to the best of your ability, but the unfortunate part of life is that sometimes there just is not an answer, or we would all be cured by now....it's doing whatever you can to be ok with who you are, where you are at and where you are going....and the other little stuff just doesn't matter

HELLO ,YOU ARE AN INTELLIGENT GIRL,AND IT BOTHERS OTHERS AROUND YOU LIKE FAMILY AND FRIENDS,HOW DO I KNOW,IT HAPPEND TO ME.WHEN I WAS A CHILD I SPENT TIME LIVING WITH MY GRANDPARENTS,AND I GIVE THANK TO 'THE HEAVENLY FATHER 'ALL THE TIME ,THIS IS WHAT MY GRANFATHER TOLD ME ,I MUST HAVE BEEN JUST SIX YEARS OLD''READ AND LEARN ALL THE TIME ,NEVER STOP'',I AM GLAD MY GRAND CARED SO MUCH,IF I HADN'T FOLLOWED HIS ADVICE I WOULD PROBABLY BE IN A GRAVE.ONE FAMILY MEMBER OF MY EX HUSBAND TOLD ME ONCE,IT IS BETTER NOT TO KNOW AND LIVE IN IGNORANCE,WELL SHE IS THE ONE WITH THE REST OF HER FAMILY WHO ARE GOING TO BE IN H....I STUDY AND READ ALL THE TIME ,I HAVE LEARNED ABOUT MEDICINE,HERBAL REMEDIES,ESSENTIAL OILS,DIET,MASSAGE,AND MOST OF ALL MY FAITH ,IS MY DIRECTION AND SUSTAINANCE IN MY DAILY LIFE.YOU GO AND SEARCH,YOU WILL FIND,AND DON'T LET ANYBODY STOP YOU.JUST BE CAREFUL IN DISCERNING GOOD FROM EVIL. THAT'S WHY WE HAVE COMMONSENSE AND BRAINS.MY GRANDAD WAS A BLESSING WITH HIS WORDS,LOVE LUCY.